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writes:I am thinking of mayb takin it further with my boyfriend. I am ready to have sex but there is one thing that is pulling me back and that is i have a stubble down below. Is there anyway i can get a clean shave with out waxing as i am allergic to the wax. the first time i shaved a couple of days later there was a red dot and no hairs have grown on it since. I squeezed it and a bit of puss came out but there is nothing inside there left yet it has still left a red mark and a bump. How can i get rid of it?? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 I find "Bikini Zone" cream helps with preventing ingrown hairs. There isn't, unfortunately, anything that is 100% effective at preventing all of those little bumps. The creams that they give you after waxing usually smell like they have something in them that is anti-bacterial, if you know of some cream that has those properties that doesn't sting, you could try that too. The "that doesn't sting" is the important part!
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 i wouldnt worry too much sounds like you have just got an ingrown hair, which is completely normal when you shave. my advice is to leave it alone, but whenever you have a shower, exfoliate around your bikini line, and moisturise after with an aloe vera based cream, and then apply some talc. another tip i found out was that after you shave, spray a tiny bit of aloe vera deoderant around the bikini line. i do it and have found a huge improvement in the condition of my skin. and as for the sex, your boyf wont mind!!! and they dont really inspect down there anyway!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): if hes a virgin to he wont be gentle hell just want to have sex, hes hardly gonna say "actually im going to end our whole relationship and pass on sex because of a tiny red dot on an area of your body that he probably wont even look at very much! dont worry so much
u know alot of people dont wax or shave down there as it is a little bare and pre pubescent
just let it grow then trim it so its not a wild forest
have fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): I wouldn't worry 2 much. You don't look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire lol! x
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reader, Reebe +, writes (17 January 2008):
 I wouldn't worry to much, I'm sure he's not going to notice!
Keep an eye on it though if it doesn't go you should get it checked by a doctor.
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reader, Variety +, writes (17 January 2008):
 I wouldn't worry about the spot. It will go away in the same amount of time that other spots do. If you want to remove hair then maybe try a cream such a veet that can be bought for sensitive skin. Just leave it on for 5-10 mins depending on how thick the hair is and then remove it. That will stop the spots from occuring again.
Hope this helps. Message me if you need to ask anything. x
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reader, dyson +, writes (17 January 2008):
 leave it it will go away in time and if your boyfriend love you that much he wont care!!!!
hope it helps xxxx
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