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He rubs his body on me and is generally very gross. What should I do?

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Question - (17 January 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy has been flirting with me ever since school started. Hes confusing because he is flirty and then he gets gross. One time I was talking to my friend by my locker and he rubs my shoulder and says '' hey, check this out! '' and zips down my sweater zipper. of course i had another shirt under. one time when it was just me and him in the hallway he called my name and when i looked over he slowly pushed me into my locker. he started rubbing his body against mine and he held me there. what does this proove?

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A female reader, dummyduckling United Kingdom +, writes (18 January 2008):

dummyduckling agony auntyou have to report this, that is sexual harrasment, he should not touch you like that unless you approve of it first. you have to tell him back off and tell a trusted adult. your only 13 ans its totaly innapropriate, if you do tell someone and nothing happens just take it higher the priciple maybe? dont worry hunni, just whatever you do dont let him get away with it.

hope this helps

X-x-X DummyDuckling X-x-X

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A female reader, Serenity151 United States +, writes (17 January 2008):

Say something now before it get's worse! If you don't let him know it's not appropriate he may take it to the next level and sweetie YOU DON'T WANT THAT AT 13. Kick him in the private parts next time and tell a teacher or a councilor what he did. Boys should never touch girls in that way! It's just totally unacceptable. Good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008):

He is a horney young boy and he sees you as an easy target, thus thinking he can rub himself on you or touch you inappropriately. What you have not said is wether this is bothering you or if you like it. If it bothers you, the next time he does it, tell him that if he touches you again he's going to be sorry. If he does it still, tell someone at the school such as a trusted teacher, etc. and they will talk to him about this. If you ask me, he's a rapist in the making thinking he can throw you in a locker and rub himself on you. What a creep.

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2008):

hello1 agony auntTell your teacher, this boy shouldn't be touching you in a sexual way. He has picked you as his target. Tell a teacher before he goes any further.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008):

hi hunni, im nearly 16, and i had the same problem last year! he did it more if i had a go at him, so i pushed him n sternly told him to stop each time he tried to do it, and got my other lad friends to help me, and he soon back off.

i hope this helped.

dont stand for it hunny!

love hannah x.x.x.x.x.x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2008):

kenny agony auntI think he is taking the meaning of flirting to the extreme here. If you are not comfortable with him touching you like this then you have got to be stern and tell him to stop right away. Tell him that you do not wish to be touched, and would he please keep his hands to himself. If he persists then tell a member of staff about it and let them take the appropriate actions.

All the best & good luck x

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