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writes:i am fat.there is this guy whom i like but he doesnt like me.he knows that i like him.....he was very nice to me about it but he changed(somethings happened but i dont want to tell them). he sent back a message from my friend for me that i should find someone else. i know that he doesnt like me and i am ok about it but what is his problem if i still like him??on some of my friends advice i went up to him and said rude things to him, and he was sad about it and i didnt listen to him. i made him feel that i dont care but i care a lot, what should i do that he likes me or is friends with me again?what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, SP +, writes (18 January 2008):
SP is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx a lot for your advice, but i cant find sum1 who is as nice as him........he was d kind u call '1 in a million"
nd i still like him lot, he doesnt tok 2 me properly cause every1 knows dat i like him....nd i think he gets embarrased when any1 sees dat he is tokin wid me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): if he doesn't like you, why do you care about all of this? Just move on, you can apologize to him and tell him it was some bad advice given to you that made you act that way.
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reader, DearDolly  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 Its hard to determine, I think it depends on the type of person he is because most people DO get upset if you make rude comments about them.
If he likes you then i think he will make the first move as he knows you like him back and can avoid an awkward suituation.
And in regards to the comment at the start of your question, don't put yourself down by making remarks about yourself like that it will only damage your self-esteem.
Good luck
Dolly
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): apologise for the out of order things you said to him. your friends gave you very bad advice there.
he can not help it if he doesn't like you, and he has shown he is a good and caring guy by saying you should find someone else. he is not trying to be mean, he wants you to be happy and find someone else because he feels that he may never like you and you would be wasting your wonderful self on him, whether you are fat or not that is irrelevant.
dont worry about things too much though, you sound like you still have an awful lot of growing up to do and that will come with time, as will boys that you like and like you back
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