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*az
writes:hi there. i have a problem. well you see, i met this girl in college last september and at the time she was with someone. we got on very well, too well. its a year and a half on and we're preparing to go uni in spetember. shes not with him anymore. ive asked her out. it got all long and complicated but she said she loves me but she wont let it be official that we're together. we havnt had sex and neither have we really kissed properly althoug hwe do the usul peck on the cheek everytime we meet. i am totally an utterly head over heals with this girl and she tells me she loves me too. i just cant wait anymore, i need to know if i can tell everyone shes mine and mine only. i just dont know where to go from our current situation. whats the next step?i love her so much, and she knows it. she loves me too, it was just today that she told me she loves me when we were cuddling in the common room at college. someone please tell where to go from here. thankyou everyone, peace... Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 January 2008):
 Continue to woo her, be there for her and experience the rich things that a couple can enjoy and feel.You are on a romantic boat journey , so discover new things about her and yourself.
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reader, Waz +, writes (18 January 2008):
Waz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, well we're not even officially together yet so yes engagement and marriage are far off loool i mean we were sort of in love from the moment we met, even while she was with her ex. and even now she tells me she loves me. i asked her today what she thinks about us getting together and she said she doesnt know. that was basically it, i didnt push it. i just dont want to leave it too long before we go uni and i dont know, im just scared youknow. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): The girl has told you she loves you but it sounds like she needs time. Maybe she is still healing from the last relationship and doesn't want to get involved too quickly. Try not to push it. Give her the time she needs.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (18 January 2008):
Enjoy your romance and be intoxicated with it but don't forget your studies.The next step is engagement and then marriage but that is still too far for you.
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