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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:When I was 14 I dated "jerome"... this lasted about a year and a half on and off ALOT.. it was an awful relationship but we had our good emotional times. We both understand eachother more then anyone in the world.. I coudl never be more comfortable around anyone else. SO we broke up and I dated other people.. I found love, so i think, we live together ..have a puppy and I love his family.. My ex and I had a very bad breakup, but we reconciled our differences, hung out a couple times, and then I chose to never speak to him again, leaving it on another bad note(without telling my boyfriend). Months and months went by and christmas was comin up soon, all of a sudden I was checking my e mails, nexopia, facebook, ect. more often then usual. I knew my ex had moved away and for some reason i couldnt stop thinking about him at that time. Eventually I had got what I was waiting for, a message on nexopia.. to get to the point! we met up .. it was a bit akward but we havnt changed much .. hes grown up a lot too.. I think about him all the time.. and he does the same .. says he loves me. I dont know what my real feelings are, so confused, what should I do?? blow him off again (i could never) tell my boyfriend of almost 2 years im talking to him? (ps he hates his guts)I just dont know what to do, do I love him still?
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reader, Reebe +, writes (17 January 2008):
 You have history with your ex, and only spending time with him again is going to tell you whether you still love him - some people you never get over.
Although spending time with him could be risky, your current bf won't like it, which you can understand. The fact that your even considering going back with your ex ahould make you take a look at your current relationship and you probably might want to think about whether he's the one for you. If you decide it is then you need to leave your ex well alone, if you decide your bf isn't the one for you then by all means spend time with your ex but look after yourself, it's easy to get hurt.
Hope this helps?
Take care
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