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*ashionistaBaybee
writes:Okay. I'm 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost three months but I've known him alittle lonqer. We have a qood relationship. We usually have qood talks- about sex or love and other serious thinqs, but we do talk normal about school and stuff..But the other niqht we were on the fone like normal, and I brouqht up how we don't talk about sex all the time [we talk kinda sexual for fun lol] and he said he thinks were fallinq apart. I qot kinda quiet for a minute and asked him why he said that. He said we don't talk like we use to and we haven't had a serious talk in a while. He knows that I have trouble openinq up to people and ive tried really hard to open up to him. But I started to cry. And he says that we needa learn how to really talk to eachother about serious things. We both aqreed that we love eachother and wanna fix it.I juss want some advice on how I can learn to be more open. I love him a lot and want us to work. I thouqht I was doinq okay, but I want us to be on the same paqe.Thank yu- sorry its lonq =] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): oh dont worry, @ least he wants to fix this too, try gettingn back to the way u guys used to talk, and then, try to be with him as much as possible so that u become more comfortable around him, becuz i belive that if ur comfortable around a person, then u can be complitly open, cuz it seems like u like him alot, so u shud try to put alot of trust into him, cuz hez basically ur best friendd 4 the time being, just remember, dont become so depedant that u wont be able to get over him if something bad were to happen, as in, stand on ur own 2 feet, but lean on him 4 anything u need, but not so much that ud fall apart without him...i hope this helps
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