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writes:Hi and thanks for reading this!Ok here goes ...i joined an online dating site for about a month i was feeling really down because all my friends seem to be in relationships and i'm the odd one out!i'm very attractive and i'm a very educated woman but when i go out guys just either approach me trying to have sex with me or they don't approach me at all or they just do when they've had a few to drink!i was just sick of guys in pubs and clubs and my friends setting me up on dates i just wanted someone normal and kind so i decided to give it a try!anyway i met a few people just casual coffee and a chat two guys i kinda liked but here is the problem as soon as i started showing some intrest the guys stoped???this is really weird and confusing!one guy even told me it was getting too intense but we only had two dates one coffee and we went to the zoo once!oh and we only kissed-nothing more!one guy even told me straight out that i was too attractive, there is always something wrong i'm too pretty too nice, too tall too kind i don't really get what i'm doing wrong??is it me?or are most guys just using online sites in hope of picking up girls thinking that they'll go to bed with them?because i'm not like that i belive in being in love and in loving someone for who they are on the inside!or shud i just give up on an idea of being in a relationship??please help this is making me feel really miserable!Thanks for reading i know its a bit long!xox :0) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks you guys have been great i feel better now!
i've called it a day with the online dating and i'll just see what happens now whenever that might be!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): wait for the right one, even tho it may not seem like its going to happen, but when it does, you will be over the moon! JUST GIVE IT TIME!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): Not every guy using online dating sites is just looking for a roll in the hay, but the percentage of them is definitely higher than the entire male population's average.
So you are 22-25 years old? If you're seeking guys a few years older than yourself then you may want to rethink that. It can actually be easier to find single guys who will go for committed relationships who are around 22-26 than with single guys who are around 28-35, believe it or not.
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reader, His girl  +, writes (17 December 2008):
Well done. i'm glad to see there are still a few of us left that want to get to know a guy before jumping into bed with him. i got very lucky with my man, we met on an internet dating site, but i have to say that most of the once i've used have been full of sad men looking for no-strings sex as they cant talk to their wives or girlfriends about how they would like more sex in their lives. At the time i met my man, i wasn't looking for a boyfriend, i was just bouncing around. My advice would be to stop looking and start living your life. When you are ready the right guy will come along. In the mean time, go out, have fun, enjoy living your life the way you want to, do what you want to when you want to and dont answer to anyone. How many of your friends can just decide, today i'm going to ice skating, or go for a walk, without first checking that they're not wanted else where? Please dont worry about the length of your question, the more info there is the easier it is to help.His girl
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