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writes:hi iim really mixed up about my relationship.i am a lesbian, i have been with my girlfriend for 6 yrs. we dont live together as i had a flat before we met. an she had house with her two grown up daughters. whenever i go there its like if she dont want me there really. she is forever picking faults in me.i am overly generous with her to much i know. i just think she.s with me for what she can get out of me and coz i think this its making me really unhappy.i.m not sure if she loves me anymore cos all she does is pick faults in any little thing i say or do. she never says anything nice about me only i.m this and that and puts me down i love her but i can.t be unhappy like this. i,v tried to end it but end up running back. she,s never deen the first to make up always me. i dont think she could cope money wise without me and i am to soft with her its like she's lost all respect for me. an i.m sure she fancies her daughters boyfriend even though he's cheated on her daughter a few times. she always defends him an when i mention it she says i.m just paranoid. they flirt with each other and i cant understand why her daughter doesn't see it. or am i just looking for things i dont know. please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): Once again, I have to agree with Gina...
There is no love there for you. If you feel as though you are being used, then you most likely are. It's not your imagination, or paranoia. Trust your gut! Don't let her take advantage of you!
I wish you luck and happiness!
Britt
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reader, batfink +, writes (17 December 2008):
You may be looking for things because, from the sound of things, you're really unhappy with her. No-one should feel like they're being taken for granted and then being treated like dirt as well. It sounds like you're more serious about her than she is about you and that you're doing all the running and that she's getting far more out of the relationship than you. If you're so soft with her and keep running around after her she may feel she can treat you however she likes and you'll still go running back to her. You don't deserve that!You sound like an independant, intelligent woman who would be a great catch for any woman. Start believing in yourself, take some time out from this relationship to get things into perspective. Go out with friends, have some fun. You never know you could meet someone who deserves you and all you can give.Good luck. i hope it all works out for you. Don't put up with her nonsense anymore. Tell her you need time away and this time don't go running back unless she starts making an effort and sorting her attitude towards you out xx
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