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writes: I NEED HELP!I have a wonderful boyfriend who I have been dating for 4 wonderful years. He is very artistic and loves to do artwork on my body. Recently he got a job to work for Bubble Magazine. He can't use the same model over and over because of his boss. There are more beautiful women to model his artwork and they have much better bodies. I'm worried about him leaving me to be with one of them. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, bookiebabyyy +, writes (18 December 2008):
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (17 December 2008):
Well this guy has been with you for 4 years...that has to say something! After that legnth of time its clear he loves you, while these models might be beautiful they wont have the personality that you do! I bet he loves you for al your little quirks and special things that make you who you are, no model can ever have that.Models should be seen as people that are just born beautiful and get paid to look that way, they are not a threat to you. Everyone is beautiful in their own way! If your boyfriend loves to do artwork on your body I bet he thinks you have an amazing body, your his muse and should feel proud of that! Be happy for him that he has this amazing opportunity and support him, he will love you more for that than being jealous.
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reader, confessjess +, writes (17 December 2008):
As an artist, I have drawn many a nude model. In my case as well as all my artist friends we tend to look at these models more as objects, or still lives if you prefer. I really don't think you have to worry about it, and being paranoid could make you hard to get along with which might put him off, than you would have a whole 'nother problem to worry about. Plus him not being able to work with a model more than once makes it even less likely.
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