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He treated me very badly, we broke up, I still love him, he drove by my house four times, what does he want?

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Question - (17 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *89456 writes:

i broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated and he was starting to treat me bad. I didnt want to break up but it was hurting me so much. when i broke up with him he acted like he didnt care. i was crying so much and he didnt even do anything about it. I dont know if he calls anymore because i dont have my phone, my parents took it away, but he emailed me. He told me his new email address and when i asked how he was he replied: "i got back with my ex girlfriend. take care bye."

Last night he drove by my house four times... i don't get him. does he want to get back with me? what is he trying to do? why is he doing this to me? im so confused i dont know what to do anymore. I really want to talk to him but i dont know what to say in the email. I still love him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008):

he's doing this to you because he ca he a little punk kid whos too young. def just move on and get over the little prick. you'll find someone know who you'll love just as much. trust me love doesn't ever last. it turns into something dif....its respect for one another its not being lovey dovey to one another. you may think you love this boy or you may kust love him for right now but it will change so don't waste your time on a jerk. let him know what he lost and what he's not good eough to have.....

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A female reader, angie_luvs_92 United States +, writes (17 December 2008):

angie_luvs_92 agony auntgirl, you remind me of myself... i noe wut your going thru, and yes it is hard, my boyfriend did that to me all the time, yet i stuck round like a dumbass cuz i loved him too but he came to his senses. but i mean if he cheated on you, he obviously eants to play games, so you can do the same, i can understand that too. i dont exactley noe why he would drive by your house so many times, prolly, most likely he misses you, but if he didint care, he wouldnt have told you the new email, or bother to go near you...its just best to wait it out ignore him for a while and see if he comes to you, it will get better, he will come back they always do

hope it all works out...

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