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writes:hi iim really mixed up about my relationship.i am a lesbian, i have been with my girlfriend for 6 yrs. we dont live together as i had a flat before we met. an she had house with her two grown up daughters. whenever i go there its like if she dont want me there really. she.s forever picking faults in me.i am overly generous with her to much i know. i just think she.s with me for what she can get out of me and coz i think this its making me really unhappy.i.m not sure if she loves me anymore cos all she does is pick faults in any little thing i say or do. she never says anything nice about me only i.m this and that and puts me down i love her but i can.t be unhappy like this. i,v tried to end it but end up running back. she,s never deen the first to make up always me. i dont think she could cope money wise without me and i am to soft with her its like she.s lost all respect for me. an i.m sure she fancys her daughters boyfriend even though he.s cheated on her daughter a few times. she always defrnds him an when i mention it she says i.m just paranoid. they flurt with each other and i cant understand why her daughter dont see it. or am i just looking for things i dont know. please help
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (17 December 2008):
I agreevwith the first commnet but also she may be tired of the relationship, if you acting parsnoid & jealous... the only way to find out is to ask her if she's happy... if she says she is try to have better communication...& when she picks fights with you just try to ignore her there can't be an argument if she's fighting with herself! who the hell is going to argue alone, right? I think you are just being insecure but like the first person said maybe she's going through something and by you acting weird you're aggravating the problem...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): something is causing her some serious pain and she is to afraid to say what it is, this is making her depresed an angry and she is taking it out on you,she needs to open up and release the pain to make the depression and anger disappear,to feel loved and return it you have to let it in,an right now she`s built herself a wall so as not to feel the pain an its now turned into anger
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