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*utterfly.Pretty
writes:Ok, so I began to like this guy and all that... And we dated for a period of time... Like about a month. The reason we broke up is his 'best friend' tried and succeeded in breaking us up like the bitch she is.Anyways so after we broke up.. I still liked him... and well we tried to form a friendship... Which caused problems with his 'best friend'Now after a while me and him started to fool around when we were drinking together, he is still a virgin.Well recently I told him that we cant fool around anymore becasue I wont be abe to get any form of closure between us... This decision was made after I saw a photo of him kissing another girl and I had a panic attack.Well recently we were joking around about 'doing it' and then he admitted that when I told him that we cant fool around he was disappointed.. I am not sure what to think of this... But basically I asked him why and he told me the reason was because he had always thought it would be us. Well again this confused me and I am not sure what to think of it... Then he told me that I am the only one who it can be just sex with... Then he said something about it being meaningful...Please please explain this to me.. I have talked to my friends... they say he likes me and all but he doesn't want to admit it...
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reader, Butterfly.Pretty +, writes (19 December 2008):
Butterfly.Pretty is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ya that kinda makes sense. The part that confuses me the most is that he say I am the only person it can just be sex meaning like no strings attched kinda thing, and I said I am sure there are other people and then he said the wanting it to be meaningful thing. Like he basically contradicted himself in a few sentences.
Ya I know he was just kissing another girl, but the thing is that the other girl was a girl I got in a pysical fight with becasue me and him were talkin and she had been butting in and not miding her own business so I flipped out and threw a drink in her face. This girl has been liking him since before we dated... I may also wanna add that we dated over a year ago... I had really really intense feelings for him up until about 4-5 months ago. Then I basically gave up hope... I just dont know anymore.
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