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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Well... let me make long story short. I met this man in 2006 when he visited my country. It was kind of love at the first sight. I had an emotional feeling for him right after i saw him and i supposed he had the same. A week later, he returned back to his country, but we kept sending each other sms and emails. I really falled for him and decided to make a visit to him. We had a great time together for a week and we did have sex. Its long distance relationship and it was hard and i always made my effort to go and see him. A few months later, i visited him again and we enjoyed being together for a week. He is a nice guy, single, well educated and respecful. Anwyay, my life was in a danger at home (pls dont ask why), so i left abroad. Since then, we never contacted each other again. I stayed single and he was the only man for me and he stays in my heart all the time and never had another other relationship since then. I just got married with another man for 3 weeks. I love him so much and he really IS a good husband. But why can't I not forget my first boy friend? -- I know i lie to myself, i still feel for him eventhough we have not seen each other for already 2 years. I will NEVER cheat on my husband physically. Please help me how do i forget my exbf? Is it normal that we can not forget our first man? My husband is living in other country and my exbf is also living abroad. I hate being in such situation. I need to love my husband only, please advice me how do get rid of my past. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): You are in a very difficult situation; with your husband being away is making it even more difficult BUT you have to FOCUS on your husband; everytime you think about the exboyfriend, try to replace your thoughts with thoughts of your husband; have lots of pictures of your husband around you and start planning exciting things for when you and your husband are togehter again.
If your ex was the 1st guy you ever had sex with, you more then likely will never forget him; BUT you CAN learn to replace your loving thoughts and to concentate them on your husband.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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