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writes:I've worked with him for over 2 and half years and we've always got on well. I was instantly attracted to him because of his kind, mature nature. We talk alot and laugh together. He's been married for a year now and he tells me his problems with his wife who is so demanding and bossy. I also know she flirts with other guys infront of him, often leaving him alone. Recently we get on more, he teases, and we make regular eye contact, and silent smiles as we pass each other. We share the same likes and dislikes and often finish each others sentances. He always jumps to help me and leans over me when using my computer, and often catches my hand. But he is shy and i dont want to say anything and ruin what we have. Even my boss has commented on our friendship and said we couldnt be more perfect for each other. We laughed it off and teased me. On the other hand he often compares me to being similar to his wife but calmer. What do i do?
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reader, FionaApple  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Sounds like me and my boss just your one year ahead, in about a year he will have been married for a year and I will have worked there for 2 :) Anyways I wish I could give you some great advice to help you out with this but I'm in the same situation but just a year behind and think me and him would be completely perfect together.
I've met his fiance and they arent to great together but theres something he sees in her that has him wanting to spend the rest of his life her and things I dont see behind closed doors. Besides the bad stuff does he ever mention the good?
All i think you should do is sit back and enjoy your friendship, you're the one he can go to talk about things like that and maybe you could even secretly hope he's single one day before you're snatched up by another guy that catches you off gaurd and steals your heart.
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (13 August 2008):
Don't get your hopes up with this guy. He's not gonna leave his wife for you. He got married while you two where already friends, that means that what he has with his wife, is way bigger than what he has with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): Nothing! He is married and what you have now is as good as it gets. Do you really believe all the b.s. he is telling you about his wife? That is the oldest trick in the book. It takes two to argue, so what is his role in these disagreements?
Find yourself a man that is available, it will make you happy, this guy will make you miserable, just like his wife.
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