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writes:im a 15 yr old young man, and lots of my friends say its fine to cheat on girls at my age and just be with girls to "have fun", personally i disagree with this because i disagree with cheating and i dont think its right to cheat at any age especially young because if you cheat while your young you could make a habbit of it and carry that habbit onto when you are older, so as i sed i do not think its fine to cheat and "have fun" at a young age, but i know alot of people that say theres no problem with it, so what do you think, any awnsers will be apreciated, thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): you sound like an amazing guy and any girl would be lucky to have you! ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): You're wise beyond your years. If only most other people felt the same way as you, this would be one heck of a wonderful world. Instead, we'll have people tell you you're correct in your assessment, though the ones giving their advice not to cheat, will be cheaters themselves.
Not only is cheating habit forming, lying is probably more so. They seem to go hand-in-hand. Duplicitous behavior is rampant and has many causative childhood/teen years psychological roots.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): If u want to have fun, have fun. but do it single. cheating is never okay.
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reader, Salad Fingers +, writes (12 August 2008):
 if you want to 'have fun', stay single.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (12 August 2008):
Yes, you're right. There's never an excuse that it's "okay" to cheat...whether it's because you're young or because you don't like the person you're with. With that said, a relationship is pointless if you want to have "fun." If you want to have fun, then just keep it at that. It's not fair to the person being cheated on, it's hurtful and disrespectful.
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reader, kelleeashton +, writes (12 August 2008):
 you are really an amazing person to not want cheat and have a conscience at such a young age, a healthy relationship is a great thing but not everyone is ready for one, and thats not a bad thing if you want to be single and have fun by all means do it!!! lol but don't cheat it will hurt you and your partner. would you want to be cheated on??
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 I've always held that cheating is cheating, regardless of age.
When you call someone your girlfriend or boyfriend, that comes with the unwritten condition that you will be faithful to that person. Why even make the effort to date someone if you're only going to screw around on them anyway?
If people want to have a few partners, 'have fun' and spread a few wild oats while they're young, then that's understandable, but it's something to do when you are single.
If you are in a relationship, you don't cheat. No ifs, buts or maybes about it.
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reader, harcourt fenton mudd +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Once a cheater, always a cheater, my friend. As men, we get a bad reputation quickly when we cheat. The women are women even at your age, and they talk to each other, like women do...gossip, talk trash, and it's often disrespectful towards YOU. It sounds fun, but BEWARE, bro. It's thin ice you'd be treading on.
Do your really want a rep. as a cheater? I wouldn't!
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reader, troysyaussie +, writes (12 August 2008):
 you are one smart cookie. you are right here. never ever cheat. it will only label you in the end and women will think that they can never trust you. i wish everybody thought like you do.
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