A
female
age
26-29,
*harlystarly
writes:From now on to make it easier, #1= the person who doesn't like the guy i do. #2= the person who likes this guy alot. #3= the true friend who doesn't hate him and doesn't fancy him either.#2 won't stop going on about him. my friend text him and he still hasn't replied after months and when I text him he'll reply straight away. I even got a random text saying "Hi..." It has been racking at my brain alll day and I can't help but wonder if he was going to say something else. #2 has just broke up with her B.F and when they were together she'd always be saying things like "I wouldn't ask him out he'll probably make you wait for an answer" and "He'll mess you around" and I think she likes to be the one with the B.F. #3 is fully supportive! I find she's the true friend. Friends are supposed to support each other not encourage them out of things. Friends are supposed to support each other not encourage them out of things. I also wanna no if this boy likes me. He texts me, when we hang out he always makes jokes then checks if i'm laughing, and we always make eye contact, I like him alot and have for the last 4 months or so. I've never felt this strongly about a guy before.
View related questions:
broke up, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): * If he wants to talk to you all the time,
* If you turn around and you catch him looking at you,
* If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
* If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do,
* If he treats you differently than others,
* If he tries to sit next to you at work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess
* If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
* If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
* If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
* If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch you back),
* If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
* If he tries to make you laugh,
* If he tries to copy you,
* If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
* If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
* If he constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as What was the homework?
* If he goes out of his way to talk to you (e.g. if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
* If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you (note: this may be considered a form of stalking)
* If you see him staring at something by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been staring at you
* If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
* If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
* If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing,
* If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,
* If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around,
* If he asks you to dance with him at the dance. Note: He may be trying to be nice because he thinks you like him. But if you are at a middle school dance, he's probably too vain and self centered of a fraidy cat, so he probably
* If he walks past you and tries to look cool so you can glance at him
* If a guy tries to show you things he got that are somewhat expensive (e.g. a cellphone) or he tries to impress you,
* If you notice when he gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to give you the opportunity to talk to him!
* If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you.
* If he feels so awful letting you down that he lies.
* If he would do anything to spend more time talking to you (e.g. if he talks to/texts you until 2:30 in the morning).
* If you realize that he ignores you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, he turns back around to look back at you,
* If he's talking to his friends and nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually been staring at you the whole time!
* If he walks down the hallway (at school) and he "accidentally" bumps/touches you, if he moves your chair or pulls your hair etc.
* If he ignores you almost completely. For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend does, he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not sure how to approach you.
A
female
reader, Angela.B +, writes (12 August 2008):
 It sounds like he likes you, but you'll never know for sure unless you ask him!
Who cares about #1,#2, and #3 - do what you feel is right.
...............................
|
