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writes: I have a boyfriend that i got back together with. i didnt know why i did, cause he really hurt me, but i still had feelings for him, but during the time we were not together i started liking my best guy friend. He is always there for me anyway, so im really confused on what to do, cause my friend doesn't like me back, and i dont want to wait around for something thats never going to happen.I just cant figure my feelings out.... and my friend found out that i kinda liked him and now we are not talking. my "boyfriend" has been acting like a jerk, thats why I broke up with him and he tells me that he loves me, but i dont belive it anymore cause he didnt even ask for me back.It's like he was thinking i was just going to take him back so easily cause he didnt love me enough to leave me for another girl! but i just had a feeling to give him his Last chance. I was thinking that he would change but he has not changed At All.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (12 August 2008):
I understand that you don't want to believe he's gonna hurt you because you love him and you probably don't see that
If hes hurt you before then he'll probably hurt you again
You shouldn't give into him because it will probably just end in tears
I know it's hard to break it off with someone you've had a past with but it's probably for the best
Also try to talk to your friend about everything and be truthful
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (12 August 2008):
alright so dump the current/ex boyfriend because he is no good and work on rebuilding a friendship with your best guy friend!
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