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writes:hi im a 30 year old female and been friends with a 30 year old male for about 3 years we talk on the net and hes always liked chatting me up we both have 2 children and hes married.when i went round a week ago we ended up having sex.and turns round and says dnt tell anyone.now he said it wo happen again and im confussed because i really like him and i know he like me to but i just dnt know wat do. should i tell all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): He's used you. The internet relationship has been a fantasy - like a build up to this. Now he's got what he wanted you feel pushed away. Please take the advice of everyone else and put this down to experience - a bad one - and learn from it. Don't prolong to agony. If he doesn't want a relationship (by saying don't tell anyone he doesn't) then you have your answer. Show some respect for yourself and if wants 'seconds' tell him to get lost.
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (13 August 2008):
just leave him alone. Your both wrong. He shouldn't be sleeping with another woman if he has a wife, and you shouldn't sleep with him knowing that he's married. Just cut your losses and let it go.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 August 2008):
Didn't you just ask this yesterday? You asked if him saying that it was "no strings" really meant that it was "no strings." Get over him. Telling everybody not only looks bad on him, but also on you.
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reader, Lisab +, writes (12 August 2008):
if hes happily married and has kids, i would say just leave it. you dont want to ruin someones happily ever after. think of the wife, and the kids. guilt is a terrible thing but everything will blowover. hes just a fase
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): It might have taken 3 years to groom you, but in the end he achieved his aim - which was to screw you. Literally.
He's not a nice man. Find someone who can give you 100%.
Telling all might cause him a divorce, which he probably deserves, but far better to tell him you've got herpes or something. That would really put the cat among the pigeons!
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