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I have a great boyfriend, but I keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal?

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Question - (12 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. he's a great bloke who treats me like a queen, is faithful and great looking, but i keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal?

Does this mean i have to end it with him?

Should i tell him i'm feeling like this?

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A male reader, previasc96 United States +, writes (13 August 2008):

It's totally unfair to be with him and then ask for space of brake things off when you wanna have sex with other men. If you wanna be a play girl, than do it. But he wants to with only you, hoping that you will be the same. Don't lie to him or yourself.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (12 August 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntMy ex did the same thing, she was always talking about it too. Eventually we grew apart and ended the relationship.

Was it a good thing? Probably, we only live once and life is about experience, when you experience, you learn and when you learn-you grow.

If you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours, if they don't, they never were.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

dont worry about it that is completely normal

your obviously missing that excitment because you have been together for 3 years you have obviously got very comfortable with each other

just remind him of the first time you met bring that excitment back into your relationship and if it backfires and you feel nothing then you know what to do good luck xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

Hmmm maybe you are still quite young and not ready to committ to one person.Perhaps you feel there is somebody better out there for you but you are showing your b/f no respect or yourself for that matter. If you cant treat him properly then let him go and be with someone who will!

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