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I'm too embarassed to take my top off in front of a girl...

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Question - (12 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *sk sweeney :) writes:

im to embaressd to take my top off in front of a girl and im not sure what to do with it ? i have been working out latley and i was previously a boxer so i do still do skipping and spend time weight lifting and on my punchbag, but it dont seem to make a diffrence apart from being able to throw a good punch haha , but i was wundering if anyone could give me advice on wt to do about this ?

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A female reader, Ask Reanne :) United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2008):

Ask Reanne :) agony auntBill, Why U Feelin Like Dat Not Many Girls Care ABout Bodies ANy More.! Well I Dnt Anyway :) Haha! Babe Your Bofies Fine :) Please Dont B Ashamed Of It And As You Av Sed 2 Me Its All Mucle :) And I Kno It Is :) Lyl Bbe xxx

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A male reader, ask sweeney :) United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2008):

ask sweeney :) is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ask sweeney :) agony auntthanks alot for all your advice :)

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A female reader, Emaz help United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2008):

Emaz help agony auntGirls wouldn't be too worried i can asure you

well......as long as you're not like 20stone or something! lol

but it seems that you're not

Personally i don't really study a boys body, i take them at face value

and just think, if a girl doesn't like you becasue you're not 'muscualr' enough for her, then she's really quite stuck up and you're better off without her!

=]

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (12 August 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntThe reason why you feel that way is because you compare yourself with athletes and people from magazines. I used to do that too until I saw some people from the magazines without make-up or anything. They're uglier than every person I know.

The magazine world is a fake one. It gives false idea about the real world and we all think we need to look like that to impress the opposite sex but we don't.

Like Danielle14 said, if she doesn't like you for who you are well it's her problem.

It's not like you can change it just like that you know? What if you get all muscular and you meet this beautiful girls who likes fat guys only. What are you going to do? Get fat all of the sudden?

We all have our preferences when it comes to the other sex, they have theirs when it comes to us. Instead of trying to be perfect for everyone of them, why don't we try to be perfect for ourselves.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

well why wud you be imbarrased its not all about the body

im 15 and i dont only like boys who are muscular its not all about that

but i understand that your wery about this i was i was never as big chested as the other girls aand i was really scared and wery around boys but i learnt that if ppl dont like you 4 who you r stuff em lol

if you wanna private message me at any time go ahead

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