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writes:Well there was this guy we were the best of friends and we always liked each other and never wanted to say. 8 months later we started to be boyfriend and girlfriend. It was amazing. I was soo happy and like I really love him. He ignored me for awhile then we hung out like usual. He told me later that night over msn that 'we should see other people' of course like I started to freak out. I told my bestfriend and she bitched at him and he then started to tell me to leave him alot and he'd only make me feel worse. Then i few days later we agreed to talk and decided we both need time and we will try so other day.I was ok but then he ignored me more. :(So I started having these horrible dreams about him and this other chick who likes him.Basically I have no clue how the fuck to get over him and I dont know how I ever will. Hes to amazing.And were supposed to be friends :| but it just makes me feel worse :(
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reader, Spiffeh..  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Go meet someone else and just forget all about him or you will seem really pathetic and needy.. Theses no point in trying to win someone over who does not want to be won over by you. Your young and should have no problem finding someone else that actually likes you.. if not.. get a puppy =] x
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reader, edoggy06  +, writes (12 August 2008):
First off, Sorry that you are going through this.I know this can be hard, because you didn't just lose a b/f. you also lost a friend. I think that is the real problem you are feeling. The truth is, your friend should have stayed out of it. When you tell a friend something, they should just listen. He probably needed sometime to think it out. Maybe he felt like you guys were moving to fast. Maybe he felt like he lost the friendship. I don't know. But when your friend told him off, he probably felt like that was a little immature. All I can say, is let him have his space. The old saying "if you love something, let it go. If it comes back, then it's meant to be. If he doesn't come back, its not meant to be. Know matter how much you love him, you don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. That robs both of you from a true soul mate. One other thing, try not to let your friends fight for you. I know we all want to take up for our friends. But when it comes to love (other then abuse) that is the two of you working on it. I hope this helps.
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