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writes:My boyfriend always makes comments such as "lets have sex" but he only ever txts them so i dunno if he is being serious or not. How can i tell if he really want to have sex? As he is the shy type that wouldnt ever dream of saying it to my face and i have tried txting him back agreeing in a jokey way but he just carrys on the joke so i never know if its serious.. How can i tell if he really wants to have sex? Any signs to look for? Thanks alot xx
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reader, Wegro101  +, writes (13 August 2008):
only if you are ready to have sex and your partner. that means your both not nervous about it or something. also my girlfriend did the same thing to me. i was like " yea lets have freaky deaky sex" but i realy didnt want to have sex. i knew it wasnt going to happen anyway. i realy didnt care
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (13 August 2008):
If you have to ask this question, than you are definitley not ready to have sex. If he can only talk about it in text, than he also is way too immature to have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): Personaly I think u should hav sex when-ever ur ready but in this situation Ur ovo not ready for sex if u can't talk about it to each others face!!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 August 2008):
Oh, snap! 16 in September! Well that makes a huge difference...*rolls eyes*
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol thanks and im 16 in september so im not that young x
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 August 2008):
Of course he does! If he's male and has hit pubery, he wants to have sex with you. I think he's being serious, but too shy (as you said) to say it in a serious manner; in other words, he's immature. But that's a given when you're a boy in the 13-15 year age range. He's hoping that you'll say, "ok! when and where?" He's probably afraid himself. By the way, you two should definitely wait on having sex.
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reader, charlystarly +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Well if you are 13-15 like it says above then you're a bit young to have sex if you ask me. Me and my ex-boyfriend had intercourse on my 13th B-day in France and I have regretted it ever since. I think he is joking when he says that, he's probably only saying that to see if YOUR interested but maybe not. There's not really a way of telling if he's serious. The best way is to txt him back and ask if he's being serious next time he txts it. It just happens if you get what I mean, normally you get signs, like making-out and then going further. It's hard to tell as everyones different.
This isn't much help but it's something.
Charlotte x
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