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How do you keep your man sexually interested so he does not wander "too much"?

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Question - (12 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2009)
A female Brazil age 30-35, *rish_boo08 writes:

I want to know how do you keep your man sexually interested in you in the bedroom so he doesn't wander too much

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A female reader, ladydette Philippines +, writes (28 March 2009):

ladydette agony auntI think it is normal for a man to wander but to keep him sexually interested in you takes a lot of effort. First, his interest should not only be about sex but also mainly about you. Sex is just secondary in a relationship. If you're talking about your man in a serious relationship with you, then you have to know what he wants in bed and be open to do it to him. Men has different wants in bed , they would want to explore you or try new things. Sometimes we find it hard to do but like I said it takes a lot of effort. Men likes it when their woman is willing to do anything they want in bed . It makes them excited and dominant. They like to take control over a woman. So it is completely up to you how well you do what he wants.

Good luck!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (13 August 2008):

DoubleM agony auntAs usual, "Annalisa" and "baby duck" offer excellent advice, but I'm astounded by your statement, "so he doesn't wander too much." If you are in a loving and caring relationship, I would think that even one time is much too much.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

It's not the sex that keeps a man around, it's the bond and his morals that will prevent him from cheating...the moral of the story is to be wise in YOUR selection.

You will find there are many choices, if you approach it from the standpoint that you will choose, then you have control over who you end up with, don't 'settle'.

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A female reader, sexi suga United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2008):

hey if there was one simple answer to that then i dont think there would be any cheaters in the world lol... but anyway on a serius note if a mans gnna cheat he will whether hes satified at home or not and espically at that age every guy is exploring and seeing what he can get and what he can get away with getting... to be honest no man is gnna say no if it is offered on a plate unless he has something dearly to loose bringing me to agree with baby ducks comment. there needs to be something more then just sex for the guy not to wander coz anyone (using their imagination) can have great sex... try to force more on building that side of the relationship first and the sex part of things will just flow... gud luck sweetie

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A female reader, Spiffeh.. United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2008):

Spiffeh.. agony auntDepends on what he likes.. Spice it up every now and then but even if you arnt meeting his needs then he should encourage you to, not just run away to someone else =] x

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