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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi,I've been with this lad quite a while now and were really comfortable with each other. Recently we've been doing alot more things, like hand jobs and stuff. He asked me if i'd want to suck him off and i said yeah, but not today. I know what it means i'm just not sure how you do it.lol... sorry i sound really pathetic, but seriously, i have no idea how you do it :S pleaseeeee help (: thanks if you do x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): There really isn't a right or wrong way.
The guy enjoys the fact that ur even doing this. All there is are tips on how to and what not to.
Seems like everyone here gave u good enough tips. The oral gel seems pretty intresting.
Just enjoy it and make the best of it.
Good luck and have fun.
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reader, RitzaD. +, writes (12 August 2008):
Its okay to ask, everybody has a first time for everything. =)To start of u don't want to put the whole thing in ur mouth at first.Start off my just licking the tip and getting it wet.When u start going lower tuck ur teeth inside ur lips to make sure there's no accidents but be sure that his penis is all wet and lubed with ur saliva or any other oral gel.U could suck up and down, or even twist up and down, and suck it just hard enough, not to soft but not to hard. Keep one hand on the shaft to keep a gentle rub while giving the bj. Also try rubing his penis on the top part of the inside of ur mouth.There is special flavored oral gels that help if u have gag reflexes or u simply don't like the taste and the gels numb ur throat, making it easier to enjoy. But u shouldn't have a problem, just be careful with teeth. Also u could try massaging his balls with ur tounge, and try licking the very bottom of his balls, or where they start from, he'll go nuts about it. If u want to make any sexy moans while doing this go right ahead, he'll enjoy the compiliment. =)Make sure how deep u can go, u don't want to be having gag reflexes and end up throwing up, and u don't have to swallow its all up to u. hope this is helpful!Have fun and enjoy.
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (12 August 2008):
Also be assured that from a boy's perspective there is no such thing as a bad blow job, only good and great - rather like ice cream. He is going to love it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): I would be more concerned if you did know how to give a blowjob at yuor age :-) Annalisa has some good advice, and I'm not a man so I don't have a penis to judge what feels good, but one move that has always turned men on is to use the flat of your tongue and start at the underneath of the ball sack and pull your tongue all the way up over the balls and up the shaft. When you get to the head, lick it.........again, with the tongue flat.....and then put it in your mouth, maintaining the contact with the tongue. Do that 3 times and see if he doesn't moan.
Also, don't be afraid to say 'does that feel good' ? don't ask him questions he has to answer because he may not be able to...just simple yes and no questions.
Good luck to you, enjoy
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs. +, writes (12 August 2008):
Hi There (:,
Lols no need to be enmbarrased Everyone has these sort of problems,
well,,
you just have to be gentle when your going down and up be careful not to scratch your teeth along, because thats what some people do lols,
Just suck it like you would do a lollypop,
and suck hard , but gentle on the top.
most boys like that.
and also use your toungue.
but you have to be careful in deepthroating because some people suffer from bad throats a couple days after
well hope this helps,
if not try different websites :)
xx
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