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writes: I am 15 and i hate my family and i wish i could live some where else and just talk with them sometimes i hate it here, i love them but, i think i would be better off not living with them i fight with them, a little to much. but i don't want to hurt their feelings by saying i don't want to live with them, i am at the point were i can't even be respectful to my parents, and they treat me so different then my older sister, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx a lot i talked to my parents they are gonna try to stop yelling and i am gonna try and listen more
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reader, Wegro101  +, writes (13 August 2008):
well it depends what they do to you. my mom is an alchaholic(going to rehab soon) and we fight over everything! even playing the damn xbox. even though we have fights we still love each other. and only when we have seroius fights that realy get on my mind. i just chill at my grandmas house. so if you ever do have fights and you want to move away from them. go at a family relatives house that loves you like my grandmother. like i am now. if you have no relatives to chill with. try not to fight with her. obey there demands. do what they say (there your parents) and try to set up some family fun like watch the olympics together or bbq. or out to eat. and tell your dad and mom not to yell or fight so much and apologize to them. and hopefully theyll apologize to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): I think everyone feels lik this at ur age.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (12 August 2008):
 I felt the same way you do at your age. Try to remamber that the way they treat you now is most likely in you futures best intrest. Unless they are abusing you, they are trying to keep you on the right track. My mother used to ground me for what I thought were stupid reasons, we used to argue like crazy, and I did actually move out at 16. After a few years of being on my own, I got pregnant with the wrong guy at the age of 19, and it was then that I realized that all the crap my mother put me through was intended to protect me, and teach me how to be a strong, independant lady. I wish I would have respected it more. What you are going through is a typical phase in teenage life, and will get better. I'm 26 now (it goes by so fast), and my family and I are very close. I live far away from my mom, but we talk everyday, She is my best friend. Hang in there. Life away from your parents is not easier. Trust me.
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reader, Spiffeh..  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Calm down Im sure it feels the same at some point for everyone else. I have 3 older sisters so i know exactly how it feels. Your still way too young to move out though as your still very much dependant on your parents and would probably find it really difficult trying to cope on your own if you did move out at the earliest possible age. Just try explaining to your family how you feel and they may cut you some slack =] x
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reader, Ometeotl +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Hate is such a harsh word. Sure we all hate things, but to hate someone means you think negativly about that person/persons. You need to sit down and look at your parents life and just imagine what they are going through and what they have to do to keep the family together. It may seem stupid but in 10 years give or take, you will be in a situation similiar to your parents. Good parents do things that children hate but parents do it with good intentions. You break your parents trust and they will stick to you like white on rice. When parents do go over board which they can you need to sit down and talk, and I mean nicely without raising voices. Let your parents know that you want to talk nicely. Try to compromise with them but don't expect to negotiate with them concerning leaving you alone because that wont happen. It is a parents duty to be up your ass until your 18 or 17. Let them be parents because you are still a minor, you still live under their roof and you eat their food. Just work with them without trying to make them not act like parents. You family can be your worst enemy but they are also the only ones who you can share a bond of love with that is unique. You wouldn't want the last thing you said to them before they died is how much you hate them, would you. Just try to understand and talk with them. Best of wishes.
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reader, sexiestgirlalive18 +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Hi, I understand how you feel. I was the same way at your age. I think you should just deal with it until you turn 18 at least. I delt with my family even though I hated them but now that I am moved out I miss them. I see them but I am happy I stayed with my family becasue it gets harder when you are out on your own and especially at a young age. Just try to ignore then and get through it. It will get better and in the long run you will be happy that you stayed. Hope this helps you.
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