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*xshaunaxx
writes:So my boyfriend and I first had sex about a month ago. I was a virgin, and he wasnt sure if he was or not. (he woke up at a party naked next to a naked girl)But anyways, neither of us make any noise during sex, other than the heavy breathing.. And we were talking to friends and he mentioned it and I think he would enjoy it more if i moaned or something. But that just doesnt seem natural for me.Can anyone tell me why? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): And orgasm doesn't neccesarrily mean you make a noise. I don't know why most people think this...an orgasm is the release of built-up muscle tension resulting from sexual activity. It produces rapid muscle contractions in the genital and anal area, but the contractions can also be throughout the body. Sometimes an orgasm is accompanied with the release of ejaculatory fluid too. Also, woman are more likely to have more than one or multiple orgasms during sexual activity than men do. The End.
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reader, lena1 +, writes (13 August 2008):
 it's normal !!!becaue peopel are not same!!!may be you are from kind that are quiet and that's good too at elast it's beter than screaming and people can hear you from street!hehehehee!
you should not wory!!the important is that you enjoy it!!!
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (13 August 2008):
Don't be worried, everyone is different. You can let him know verbally if you like wat he's doing, and encourage him to continue. That could also be a great turn on to a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): Some people are just naturally noisy and others are naturally quiet. I have had all different types of men, loud ones, quiet ones , silly ones and one that would say something silly like... give it to daddy, and one that would always announce..."It's cumming, I'm cumming baby, oh yeah, there it is, oh yeah" Every one is different and that's what makes us interesting :-) No worries.
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reader, Spiffeh..  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Its not natural instinct to scream during sex as its an enjoyable act and screaming normally tells others of the same species we are in pain and to beware of us. Maybe he would like you to moan to let him know when your enjoying something and some guys find moans a real turn on.. =] x
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reader, SuperSammie +, writes (12 August 2008):
 nah its okay to not make sounds.
when i have sex it depends on who its with and what position we have sex in.
when i had sex with my ex i hardly made any noise except the heavy breathing.
but with my currant bf i moan so much,
i think it just depends on who its with n the position.
just try new stuff with him
hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): Do just what comes natural for you. Don't fake anything during sex. Some men and women make all types of noises and others don't. As you become more experienced, your orgasms will become better. It's likely that you didn't even have one your first time. Sometimes it takes a long time before women start to have orgasms. A lot of this has to do with the guy becoming more experienced and knowing how to bring you to orgasm. You will probably begin making more noises naturally in the future as sex gets better with experience, both yours and your partner's.
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reader, gabba's say +, writes (12 August 2008):
 you learn more the more you do things. some girls never make a sound. it is not essential. Nothing worse than a screamer. a bit filth talk never comes in wrong mind.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Because you don't like it, and that's it. Some things you like, some others you don't.
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