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anonymous
writes:well im 14 and i still havent went through full puberty. ( i got pubes and the parts are beggining to grow) so how can i know i can last in sexual intercourse? i mean i want to know because i dont want to last 5 minutes with my 1st time. sincerly me. please reply Reply to this Question
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 10 seconds if you are lucky! :D
That is if you don't blow before you get inside.
Don't worry though it is all natural and normal not to last long the first time.
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reader, RitzaD. +, writes (13 August 2008):
 I lost my virginity at age 14 and honestly I don't even know how long my first time lasted, because it felt like an eternity. We were eachothers firsts, so we were both kinda lost. But we managed to get through. I can assure u that during ur first time, u will have so much running through ur head that the last thing u will be thinking about is how long u will last.
Now I look back and remember how funny and romantic it was. It wasnt the best feeling in the world to me but it was to him, it was rather painful. 6 years later im still with him, and well lets just say, its awsome. =) still been very safe about it, no kids yet. So please when u do decide to do it, be safe, wear a condom! And remember u want to remember ur first time as nice memory, not a time record.
Take care!
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female
reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 August 2008):
Well that's good of you to think that way. But don't set your standards too high your first time :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionguys im not going to have sex now . oh and i know about condoms i was just wondering how long will i last. so when its my 1st time i want it to be good for me and her
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): First off, I agree with all the others below. But 5 minutes? You'll be lucky if you last one minute, but don't worry about it - it's the same for most lads the first time.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (12 August 2008):
Like harcourt said, don't worry about that sort of stuff your first time. It's already probably going to be awkward and something exciting and new to you--so don't even worry about how long you'll last. That stuff comes later, when you're older and the girls even have experience and would be irritated by someone not lasting very long. And just one more note, don't try and last hours. Women don't like marathon men either...
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reader, ask sweeney :)  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 im only 15, and im not a virgin so maybe i can help you here, you cant make yourself last longer, but i find the mre excited/horny you are b4 u have sex makes the diffrence, i find the more horny you are the less time u last, for example ive haad sex when ive been extremeley horny and lasted a few minitues and other times ive had sex and ive still been horny but nt as horny as ive been before and ive lasted hours, i also find if you have sex on a regular basis you get used to it and start lasting alot longer, i guess the best thing you could do as it is your first time is just try to stay very calm about things
hope this works for you
good luck
enjoy
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female
reader, troysyaussie +, writes (12 August 2008):
 masterbate. that will tell ya how ong you can last.
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reader, harcourt fenton mudd +, writes (12 August 2008):
 OMG, dude! Do not worry about how long you'll last your first time. You have a long sex life ahead of you, Bro! Don't get all obsessed over how long, or is your penis big enough, etc. PLEASE Be safe if you are screwing around with girls. Use Condoms, Condoms, Condoms!
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