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*exiestgirlalive18
writes:Someone please help me out. I have been on here before with somewhat of the same question. I have told my boyfriend that I aint satisfied with sex. He dont last long he last maybe less then a mintue sometiems a minute at most. I hate it I just dont know what to do. He is good when he goes down on me but when it comes to sex he just aint that good. Does anyone know anything that we can do. We tried just about everything. He have tried do a couple different positions and that dont help. We have tried to take it slow and that dont help I just dont know what to do. Does anyone have advice cause he dont even like that he dont satifies me. Some help please Reply to this Question
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (1 August 2007):
Hi! Wanting to last longer; This may help you to do just that. First off, Only one woman in three will have an orgasm by Penile-Vaginal-Stroking, Intercourse. your gf may be that one woman out of three. So no mater how long you can keep your erection or how much penile stroking takes place, she won't have an orgasm. The reason for this is quite simple, as it takes, for most women, the direct stimulation of the Clitoris to induce an orgasm. As for your problem, most of us men have Premature-Ejaculation, coming too soon now and then. You might want to try this.
* Make sure that your bladder is completely empty before you start.
* Stimulate your penis by hand to the point of ejaculation.
* When you feel you are about to come, Ejaculate.....
* You grasp the tip of your penis(just below the glans),the head of your penis, with your thumb and forefinger.
* You then squeeze your penis gently for about 10 seconds or until your urge to come, ejaculate, has passrd.
* You will need to repeat all of the above, bringing yourself close to an ejaculation again and again for about 20 to 30 minutes.
* Then you can have your orgasm.
* You don't engage in any vaginal insertion with your penis when you are training you penis to last longer
* When your control over your penis has improved. You can attempt, at first, just to insert your penis into her vagina for a few minutes.
* Later on when you have learned full ejaculation control over your penis. You can prolong your vaginal intercourse.
"NOTE", If she can do all of the above for you, she will be able to stop just before you come, ejaculate. Us men have the tendency to want to come and enjoy our orgasm.
Do Hope that this has been helpful to the both of you.
Us men get into trouble early on in life by our quick Masturbation, coming as soon as possible, and our penises are only going to do what They have been taught to do. So what you are really doing is retraining your penis to last longer and please a woman's Passionflower. her vagina.
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reader, SumYungGuy +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Well, telling him you're not satisfied with his performance all the time sure isn't going to help. Now he's gonna develop performance anxiety (if he hasn't already).I agree with quarky, do a search online for different techniques and aids to discover new ways to help him last longer.
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reader, quarky  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 there are lots of techniques and aids which can help prolong your guys performance - a web search will have lots of suggestions. try lots of things - you'll have fun!
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