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*ero05
writes:I had my first boyfriend and I dumped him because his ex still liked him and people seemed to care too much about other people's trouble. It just got way too complicated so I ended it.Like a week after I dumped him I was told he wanted to get back with his ex (who is a friend of mine). He told me he did that only beacause I dumped him and I really want to get over him. He just doesn't know what he wants and I'm not waiting for him.But I really miss him, like a lot.And I'm stuck.I wanna get over him, but I don't know how to.help?
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reader, lovehate  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Sweetie everyone goes through this sadly a million times in their life. For me, time was the biggest help. Try to think about all the times he hurt you or you were upset and think about the open door ahead. Honestly honey you will get over him. Anyway to go out with your friend and using that excuse after having a relationship with you is not a nice thing to do, your too good for him ;)
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reader, jerseysitalian  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 my g/f still thinks i like the girl i liked just put it behind and ask if you guys can go back together cuz you obsoisly love him. so just ask him if he still likes you or ex
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reader, RememberMe4Me  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 i know the position youre in... it really hurts. If you honestly want to get over him this is what i did. I thought of every way he made my life worse, i thought about everything he ever did to hurt me, i thought about how he was better with them then with me. But if you still like him its hard to get over him. Sometimes you just have to follow your heart, no matter how long you have to wait. But the way i look at it is if he goes back to his ex, you honestly were just something to ocupy his time... that or he was trying to figure out his own emotions and tried to see if you could satisfie them. But seeing he went back to his ex it doesnt look like he cared all to much for you. Theres a saying though... "If you love someone, let them go. If they come back they're yours. if they dont, they never were" maybe thats how your life is looking out.as for your question... try hard as you can to focus on the bad thigns about what he's done and who he is. Thats what i did and its worked.~RememberMe4Me~
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