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writes:Where do you meet people to date? I don't know where to meet worthwhile guys. I go out to the bar but all that those guys seem to be interested is sex, I don't go to school anymore and I work in a small office where there are no guys my age. I don't have a lot of friends here so it isn't like I am meeting a lot of new people through them. My other problem is that I don't really have any hobbies so I don't really have that to help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): dont let anyone tell u that u cant find ur soulmate at a bar or a lounge. i found mine at a very busy packed nightclub, when i already had a lot to drink. u can find a good man anywhere
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 At the grocery store...the laundrymat...bookstores. If you pursue things you love, you're bound to run into some decent guys doing the same thing. You could also enroll in classes, take up salsa lessons, take an art or pottery class, who knows who you will meet. Oh, and there's always church.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Well apart from work, i dont know to be honest. Ive only ever met one decent guy, and he was the dad of my 2 children, i met him through work. Anyone else ive met has been in bars, and you're mostly right, they are a bit young & out for what they can get. Not into one nighters myself. So will happily stay single for now.
I believe in fate & will stay single until someone stops on the side of the road to help me change a tyre or i see in Tescos while im doing my shopping hehe. Or i meet through everyday life. BUT having said that i wouldnt totally rule out dating sites. Ive never met anyone through them myself, but ive known others to end up married through those! As far as i know they still are.
Sorry couldnt be more help :o(
C xxxxx
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (31 July 2007):
 You could try something like dancing class or try a sport. Its hard to meet someone suitable but you never know, you might just bump into the man of your dreams in a store or the park. I think if your looking you never seem to find and its those times when you least expect it that it can happen. Just keep yourself nice, find activities that will enhance your life and make you more of an interesting catch and just see what happens.
Good luck
Aunty Em x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): just a suggestion: try bulletin boards, newspaper, social places and look for some activities to do in your spare time. and dont worry about it. when the time is right you'll know you've found the right guy. good luck hope this helped.XxXxX
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