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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: hiya, im a little worrried as i snogged my best mate, also a male, and we liked it, we both have girlfriends and are scared this may ruin out friendship! please help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, telf32 +, writes (7 August 2007):
These things happen. There are many people who've been in your situation. Don't let it worry you. If you both want to do it again, then there is no harm in exploring any feelings you have - it's perfectly normal for people to explore their sexuality at a young age. But you must keep this totally private between the two of you. You should talk to your friend about it - because he could be feeling exactly the same as you are.
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female
reader, nevets122 +, writes (31 July 2007):
i dont think you should be in a reltaionship right now, i feel like you want to experiment with your sexuality a bit. unless you believe you are?
dont worry your freindship with your mate is not ruined at all seeing as you both liked it, as long as you both feel comfortable with what you are doing to each other, i dont see a problem.
But be careful if your still in school, because you dont want the wrong sort of people finding out, because they could ruin your relationship with your freind and ruin the whole experience for you.
unless you dont want to experiment with your sexuality, then you should both agree it was a one off, and it would never happen ever again. however talk to your freind abut it dont just sweep it under the mat and pretend it never happend. that will just lead to problems
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