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*odie1987
writes:I have met this bloke, have known him for about a month now. When i first met him i thought he was really nice but i had just came out of a relationship and didnt really want to jump back into another one. Anyway he made every effort to get with me, and i finally did. He told me that he was living with his ex temporarily and that he had brought up her son for 2 years. He also told me that she had told him not to come back home and that he would be staying at a mates house. but every time i ring him or i dont know where he is he is normally there.I dont mind him having contact with the child but i dont like him telling me to be quiet when he is on the phone to her! i dont know what he has to hide! i have met the exs child he introduced him to me but it is really confusing because i am getting mixed messages about us and him and his ex!!! HELP!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): I was the ex in your situation and his new gf did not like him calling me and she made him choose. They have since split up because she could not handle him seeing my child. He has since tried to get back with me. Not sure if this helps but just shows how men lie
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reader, penta  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 He may be worried that if she finds out he has a girlfriend then she'll get jealous and blow up. If so, then he's not totally split from her, as far as she is concerned, and living with her isn't honest. No wonder she told him to get out.
Run from this guy. He's entangled with someone, whether he admits it to himself or not, and it's going to be messy for a while. You don't need this headache.
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