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anonymous
writes:I have been seeing a guy for 4 months and he sais he loves. We have been friends for 4 years before that. He alwayed text me every day and phoned me most and told me to not stop texting him but last weekend i heard nothing from him and he ignored my two calls and my two texts - I paniced a bit and text him saying if there was something wrong he should do the decent thing and let me know, and if he though anything of me he would just let me know if he wanted to finish it. I also said we should just be friends as i was hurting and said c u around. I feel bad for doing it by text but he wasn't answering his phone and i paniced, he's never ignored me before. He has already split up with me once when he was drunk and weedled his way back into my life. which is poss why i paniced. I want to text him sorry and why i sent it but i havent got hiis number now, but i could get it off his friend. Should i just leave it? should i have sent the text? i dont know if i've done the right thing, cant get it out of my head
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): He ignored my calls and I said we should just be friends, but I dont know if I did the right thing I Forgot to say i thought we were supposed to meet for a drink on the sunday but he wouldn't answer his phone. I feel bad for sending the text but if he was having problems at home he could have just sent me a quick text he'd call me in a couple of days?.. Rather than completely let me down. He aslo has a nother girlfriend who he says he doesn't love but she is pregnant so he wont leave her, but he used to take me out and stay over mine on a saturday night. I feel really confused. I really miss him but its driving me mad that i dont know what happend. How do i get over this. He lives by me so i'm worried about bumping into him, i still love him and if he ignores me it would really hurt me.
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reader, penta  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 You should just leave it. You don't need the headache of wondering where you stand with him. If a guy wants to be with you, he'll work to be with you. This guy is not. Leave it and find someone who won't cause you to panic.
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