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female
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30-35,
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writes:hi i am 14 and i really like this footballer who i recently saw at a football match. i have never spoken to him before and have only seen him twice, but i really fancy him because i think he is very good looking. but i wish i did not feel this way for someone i hardly know. can someone please give some advice on what to do. by the way he is 21 and he plays in the coca cola championship and is in one of the best teams in there. help i do not want to feel this way about someone i dont know.Note from moderator: PLEASE use punctuation when posting! Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Crushes at you age, or any age are normal hunni. The fact he is so much older than you I would say to admire from afar for now. We all have crushes on older men when we are in our teens. Mine was on a teacher and it tore my heart up but I knew nothing could or would ever come of it.
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (1 August 2007):
 hey huni, well to be honest you are just going to have to convince yourself that its not goin to happen. hes alot older than you, n i know your feelings wont just turn off like that like sometimes you wish they would im currently tryin to get over someone too n it is very very hard but you are young and its just a crush youll meet someone your own age n forget all about that football player :) besides you dont know his personality and footballers are nothing but big headed vein people who would probably treat you like crap n e way. take care now :)
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