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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:It's a long story but basically a female friend flirted with me (I'm bi). Then after a couple of weeks of talking (mostly initiated by me) I said I really liked her and wanted a relationship. She said she's kinda too busy but seemed to still be interested. Then she suddenly stops answering my calls (I call once a week) and after the third call she sends me an email that she doesn't want a relationship right now and she's also not gay or bi.I thought it was really rude and immature for her to send an email instead of just giving me a call back. Anyway, the question is why the hell did she flirt with me if she's not gay or bi? It really bothers me because she's not usually a flirty person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): Hey sweetheart! i can imagine how confusing this is for you because i went through a similar situation. its not fair for her to play with your emotions and mess you around in this way. it could be that she is not ready to confess to being lesbian/bisexual and she is in denial of her feelings! it is possible that she does care for you and want to be for you but is too scared to admit her feelings. i suggest that you give her some time to think about things. then contact her someway (it doesnt matter how) and say that you do really like her but if she doesnt want a relationship then can you still be friends? either she will say yes lets be friends, she will say no (worst case scenario of course) or she will have decided that she wants to be with you as your partner and you can start things up! i think thats really your only option, but my gut instinct, from what you said is that she does like you and is scared! if you need more help then keep us updated and i will get back to you!
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