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writes:hi therei was wondering what to do you see its a very long story but ive got this mate who ive known for a long time shes the same age as me 15 and shes just got her first proper boyfriend and hes absolutly horrible he takes the mikey out of her like you dont no what (cuz shes small) and hes really tall and hes so evil he tried splittin me and her up from bein mates and shes still with him! and now shes sees him EVERY day im serious they either go out or go to each others house all the time and its annoying me so much because i never see her and we argue all the time because me and him hate each other and she has changed so much when im on the phone to her we are usually on for hours when hes there we are on the phone minuites before she says she has to go because hes there, and im gettin so fed up of it and ive tried talkin to her but it goes in 1 ear and goes out the other im loosin my best friend what do i do any help will be appreciated A LOT! thanks xx
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 How well do you know her parents? Maybe if you are on good terms with her mom, you could ask her how SHE feels about her daughter's b/f. Maybe her mother can convince her to stop seeing this kid if you can't. More than likely the whole thing will eventually play out anyhow. Relationships at this age never last that long anyhow. Just hope she's using protection so she doesn't end up getting pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): I totally understand you on this one as ive experienced this myself, it can be very frustrating when your best friend gets a boyfriend that you hate if she loves him there nothing you can do about it. Shes going to be vunerable in love and want to spend most her time with him, but you still have to let her know your her best mate and that your always going to be there because eventually they could split up and it will be you she comes running to. I think its extremly out of preportion for him to be trying to split you both up and just tell her you need to talk and let her know how you feel. Im sure she will understand. Let me know how you get on
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reader, x-kay_kay-x  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 wow i have exactly the same problem my m8 just got her proper first b/f and i nva see her at all we argue all the time cause i tell her that you need your friends more than your b/f and she tries to say i`m jelouse she has acused me of wanting to be with her b/f thing his me n him have been frends scince nursery lol but he also says bad things bout her when its just me and him he is always complaining bout height differce and that she is too clingly and mardy cause like u she is always around there when she livied near me we saw each other 24/7 but now she moved i forgot the last time she came round my house so really wat i`m sayin is...your friend can` t be that much of a friend if she doesn` t want to c u hang around with some other friends and u will realise that u don` t need her and i bet by the end of it she will want u. by the sounds of it they r gonna break up soon if he carries on so at the end when its all tears she will want u bk and simply don`t let her say we can be friends but not bff`s and jjust don` t let her cry on u and u have tried to warn her and she is carrying on so when they break up just say to her i tried to warn but u would rather listen to a b/f u`ve known for the past .... month or so than listen to your best friend who you`ve known for yrs tell her if she wwants to be like that let her itas her who is in the wrong and when she realises itit will hit her hard i`m trying to sort this out myself as well but with my orther friends i no it hurts but i`m moving on and i carn` t wait 4 when they break up and she wants a shoulder to cry on cause i wont b there and she will have no one just leave her if thats how she wants to be good luck x-kay_kay-x
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