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*hronic1985
writes:hi i'm new here and not to sure how to start this, but could do with some advice.i've been working with this girl at work since the beginning of the year. When i first met her i liked her but now after getting to know her more i have a massive crush on her, i love being around her. i've come so close to telling her sometimes but hold back. We get on really well and she said she really enjoys working with me. only problem is she has a boyfriend shes been with for two years thats why i'm holding back because i don't want to ruin anything. Sometimes i think its just me wanting to be with someone as i haven't had a proper relationship in a couple of years now.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Well you can't very well ask her to change jobs, but you certainly could and it might help you feel alot better if you don't have to keep running into her, given your feelings for her. Who knows, you might meet another girl at another office who is available.
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reader, chronic1985 +, writes (2 August 2007):
chronic1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwas working with her today. but i thought to myself it would be a lot better for me and her to look elsewhere. thanks for the advice
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reader, lil_mizz_cute07 +, writes (1 August 2007):
i think u have to accept that she genuinenly loves her bf, and as hard as it is u have to move on. Tell her how u feel, im sure she'll understand and appreciate u being honest with her, i know i would. Then go out with the boys n get totally drunk, stay friends with her, isint it best to be friends than to be nothing at all?
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reader, Basschick +, writes (1 August 2007):
Find someone else. It's always a bad idea to pursue someone who's involved with someone else. Look at it this way, if you were seeing her, and were in love with her, would you want some guy plotting his attack to steal her away? Didn't think so....There are probably lots of available women who would love to get to know you. Why do we always go for the forbidden? Ah, human nature....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): If she's been with this person for two years then it's obviously serious. In which case I think it would be unwise for you to make any kind of move on her.
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