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writes:Im 38 years married with 3 kids my wife is 33 bye November 2007.we are married for 8 years now. we live happly before.till i decided that she should go back to classroom for further studies.Since , then she has developed bad behaviours , flirting with her mobile . going out without letting me know , droping our kids elsewhere , liars and denial and avoiding me always.i have tried to asked from if i m doing something she dont like . but she refused to speak to me.Now am afriad of her , even trying to avoid her. please . advice me what to do ..i love her with my kids .Or is crime sending her to school. she is doing to extend of hide her mobile into her pant while sleeping .her men friend calls her in my presence .what should i do ..at for the sake of my kids ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): what if she never let's me look threw her phone?
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reader, Guitarboy  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Maybe she wasn't as happy in the marriage or being a parent as you are (or thought she was). I think she's having an affair with someone she met at class. Probably a younger man and she's trying to make up for lost years or having a mid-life crisis. I agree wit DJ, hire a dectective if you want to know for sure. But be prepared to face the truth once it's out there. A divorce will be likely unless she realizes her mistakes and makes huge changes. The trust part will be up to you after that. Good luck.
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 If you want to know, hire someone to follow her to see where she goes (a private detective). It sounds like she has discovered a life outside of the home, and she is displaying signs of cheating. Find out what's going on before you do anything. Until then, relax and don't get overly emotional. Think about what you can do to make yourself emotionally stronger. Talk to the preacher a best friend your dad someone. People change, you can't control anyone but yourself. Don't tell her a thing about what you're doing. Let me know what you find out.
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