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writes:I sent this guy im intrested in a song online and made it very clear that I'm crushing on him. I was unaware the song would go public (on his page where all his friends can view it)......hes been online and has seen the song and i sent a message saying what i did and how i was unaware of it going public...Now im left waiting and unsure of his intentions cuz hes been online n has made it clear that hes been online (added sum stuff n deleted sum) but that songs still there.so im asking does that mean hes intrested? He coulda deleted the song as he dont use the application.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 He is obviously immature. He's making a mockery of your gesture of love, and he should be left to it. Don't let the song bother you anymore, just see it as the actions of a cruel and immature man, who doesn't deserve to be with you.
I think it was a very nice way to express your feelings, but for future refference, think more carefully about who you do that sort of thing for.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Sorry but this guy sound like a jerk(i was gonna use a curse)
He sounds like he is just using the song to have a laugh with his mates and not acknowledging your feelings in the situation and he confirmed this by not removing the song.
It was a good idea and im sorry you poured your heart into this but hes an fool
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reader, mona-lisa-cries +, writes (31 July 2007):
 hun im sooo sorry to disappoint but it sounds like this guy is doing it just for a good laugh with his mates...
this doesnt mean he doesnt like you, it just means hes definatly going to act differntly around his friends...do you want that?
it sounds to me that even if in the end you get this guy, he isnt going to be a decent boyfriend and almost definatly nothing more...
i feel bad about being so pesimistic and maybe im totaly wrong but from what ive hear i dont trust this guy...
good luck
i hope everything turns out well
xxx
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Hi again,
Didn't see your update until after posting my previous answer.
Do I get it right if I guess you sended it to a page where it automatically goes public and you just didn't know?
I think that since he knows you didn't intend it to be public, he would have removed it if he really didn't want others to see it, definitely.
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reader, Oblivia +, writes (31 July 2007):
I think writing a song was a very cool and nice way of letting him know you like him. Sad only if he doesn’t appreciate it, but then it is his loss. He should have been more sensitive to your feelings no matter whether he likes you or not.
Maybe he didn't get it at all and thought you wanted him to promote him, but if so, then again, it's his loss, he is a jerk.
Wish you luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): im the writer of this question and am adding....i didnt tell him to remove it i said "i didnt want it to go public cuz im not sure if you feel same"....its only been a day so far...but still im assuming if he didnt want everyone seeing it hed remove it right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): boys are weird. he either put it there to humiliate you or put it there because he is unsure of whether or not he likes you. the next time you get a chance just ask him why he did it. if he's not gonna give you the chance then just try and avoid people for a while until it becomes a bit more obvious where all this is going. hope that helps XxX good luck XxX
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reader, penta +, writes (31 July 2007):
 If you've asked him to remove it and he hasn't, then he's a jerk who isn't worth your time. He should have told you if he's interested. I would blow him off and move on.
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