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writes:how can i convice my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night? we cant hang out to often on account of her parents not liking me to much for my past. i constantly sneak out to see her for a few hours but its always her inside and me outside and its kinda uncomfterable for us both. i dont want to pressure her into doing something she doesnt want to do and i love her very much, she doesnt want to risk getting in trouble with her parents and that is understandable. does anybody know how i might be able to convince her that there is nothing to be worried about? Reply to this Question
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reader, hootsandkisses +, writes (14 August 2010):
ok im only 13 and i sneak out with my boyfriend all the time! i live right next door to him so its pretty easy. what i do is unlock the back door during the day and tell my grandparents that my brothers and i were planniong on playing outside later. see my grandparents are very heavy sleepers so its easy. my boyfriend and i stay on the phone until 12:00 then i go out the back door and meet him on the side of the house. then at about 3:00 we go back inside. we get to see each other during the day but we are never alone so we just do this to have some alone time..its funny because my 8 year old brother helps us sneak out..hope i helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): Omg!! I used to sneak out with my boyfriend all the time! Consider me an expert on this topic. Anyway first things first, you definetly want to come at a late hour of the night! Old people can barely stay up till nine! Also make sure she knows what. Time you r coming. My boyfriend usally called me during the day so I could get a window open. Next thing to do is lay out some pillows under her sheets so it looks like she's still there lol, if her parents come to check on her in the middle of the night they prob won't be able to tell the diffrence since its the middle of the night. When my boyfriend and I started sneaking out we went somehere nearby just in case. I promise you that unless her parents stay home and take naps all day you won't get caught! Trust me they r waaayyy to tired from work and stuff to even notice! Hope u guys will get to spend more time togethere! ;)
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (2 August 2007):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks i realize that i was being selfish in wanting her to do something that she just wasnt comfortable doing. and i've decided to not press the issue and just wait and see what happens and if it doesnt happen o well. but anyway thanks for the advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): you shouldnt try to convince her if she doesnt want to then dont try to get her to. She will when she is ready just be patient and the time will come when she does
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 I suspect the parents are wise to you (they usually are). So it might be best if you just see her during normal hours, respect the curfew they've imposed on her and over time, they may change their opinion of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): Convincing her to sneak out and go against her parents is not going to be good for anyone is it? You say her parents already don't like you so you have nothing to lose in this situation. Your girlfriend's relationship with her parents is going to suffer immensly if they catch her sneaking out.
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reader, jerseysitalian  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 gain the parents trust back?
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 I agree with rhythmandblues- that's not the way to have a lasting relationship - that's the way to cause trouble.Try to prove to the parents that you've changed. Ask them if there's anything you can do to prove your loyalty or your willingness to change. They're worried about their daughter, and I don't blame them- boys your age have a hell of a reputation for being full of hormones, or at least on the verge of it!
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (1 August 2007):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit not like what you think her parents dont like me because of something that happened in my past before i ever met her i do care about her and i dont want her to get in trouble but at the same time i want to hang out with her (not fool around) we dont get to see each other much anymore and i just miss her, and i dont want her to do anything she is uncomfortable with honestly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): Are you kidding, her parents don't like you because of your past. Convincing her to sneak out of the house to hang out with you at night will not win you any favors with her parents, and you are a damn liar that you don't want to convince her to do anything she doesn't want to do or you would not even be asking this question.
You need to respect the rules of her house, she is a child living at home, not your play thing....you are young too, and you probably want to convince her to fool around with you, and unless you want to meet the long end of a shot gun, you had best not be sneaking her out of her Dad's house.....
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