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writes:Im currently seeing my mates mum. Im 17 and so is my mate, his mum is 32. but last night she told me that she was pregnant with my kid and she wants to keep it. even more she is planning to tell my mate about us.what should I do? Should I tell him first or what?I need help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Congrats.. does your mates mom have a husband? If yes, let her play this into everyone believing that it is their child! And don't worry at all and try to make as much babies with her as possible.
If no, then tell your friend first that you're in a relation with his mum and since she is happy with it you'll be proud to give him many small bros and sis!!
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reader, Main Man +, writes (3 May 2009):
 Hopefully you and your friends mum have spoken to him about the pregnancy and your still friends. You should have used a condom as she is still of child bearing age and then you wouldn't be in this postion in the 1st place. Just try and be a good father to the child you have with your friends mother. Don' be a part-time father and also stand by the mother of your child. A child needs both it's parents.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): if u tell him before his mum does then he might start to trust u agian soon, but if it comes from his mum he might never trust u and u might get a smack in the face eaver way x
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reader, Livia Simoka +, writes (3 August 2007):
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Yeah, you should probably fess up to your friend. It might soften the blow, coming from you. But he'll still probably be freaked out and it could be a problem for your friendship, from him on out.
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reader, Rymo +, writes (1 August 2007):
i think you should run for it!
yours is the worse problem i have ever seen!
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Well you have to tell him and soon.
Hes not gonna be please with what you have done and you'll proberly loose a friend in the process.
But your gonna have to step up and raise this child as it is here to stay.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (1 August 2007):
Okay! Do hope that I got this strieght, You are in a homosexual relationship with your bf, but also have gotten his mum PG with your child. And now she is going to spill the beans. Beat her to the punch and tell him yourself, As that is the right thing to do. What he may do,or not do, about your relationship is up to him. Think if I were him, I would have more respect for you,then if the news came from hie mother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): I think you should both tell him. it will work out for the best
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reader, beautifulllove  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 wow i think you both should explain to your friend but also make sure your ready to be a father or what you want your still young and you might be losing a friend because i dont think your mate would like you being hes step father if that step was taken but also the father of hes brother or sister but what ever does happen i wish you the best and hope all works out for the best
good luck but remember only time will tell the out come of a situation and stressing your self maybe a waste of time anger fades and all will be well soon as trust is refilled
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