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writes:She says shes never had anal sex before, but when we tried it there was no difficulty getting it in. Is she telling the truth or lying?will i b able 2 trust her if she is lyingplz help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): Let me just say that the first time I had anal, it wasn't hard for him to get in and it didn't really hurt me like I thought it would. I wouldn't judge by that, plus my b/f kept asking me if I had anal before, so he may have had the same thought as you, but it really was my first.
If I were you I would just trust her and be glad that she lets you, its really not something that I or most girls will let just anyone do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): OKay I so agree with the answer below. First of all if she told you she never had anal sex, trust her because if she really thinks you love her than she probably is not lying to you. Besides even if she did have anal sex before it doesn't matter because at that time she did not even know you. She did ask you how many girl's pu**y you sucked or f*cked. So I would just say trust her and it doesn't matter if she has had anal sex before or not becuase the only time it should matter to you is if she is with you and had anal sex with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): You accepted her into your life. you also accepted her into your bed, Did she ask you how many women you slept with or how many notches you have on your penis. Her having sex with someone else before you met was their affair, not your's. And if her previous sexuality makes her a better love in your relationship, I don't see what in the H**l you have to complain about.
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reader, SumYungGuy  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Maybe she read a lot of articles and books or whatever on anal sex and knew how to prepare herself for it. Maybe she prepared her "tight little a$$" with a buttplug or something before you came over to cornhole her.All I'm saying is, you never know unless you ask. If she did have anal sex before - SO WHAT? Is that gonna keep you from doing it again? She's probably had vaginal sex before too - is that gonna keep you from having sex with her? She probably didn't tell you because she probably thinks that only 'sluts' have anal sex and she doesn't want to viewed as such. Try talking to her. Find out what's up. If she did lie, let her know she doesn't have to lie to you anymore and you forgive her. If she didn't lie then see if she'll let you in on the secret to easy anal sex. Then create a webpage and post the secret. Charge people $39.99 to view the secret and you'll be banking dough in no time (and having easy anal sex!)Hope this helps.
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reader, splendid_spiders +, writes (1 August 2007):
She'd have to have had A LOT of anal sex for her to be ... how do I say this? Um, loose? As far as I know, even after tons of anal sex, problems like that don't arise 'til old age. And if it makes you feel any better, my man and I have plenty of anal sex and I still have a "tight little a**" according to my man ... sorry if TMI! And I don't feel you should be upset even if she did tell a little lie. She may have been ashamed to admit if she's had anal before. So, if I were you, I wouldn't question her anymore or you might lose your backdoor permission!
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