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41-50,
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writes:Hi. Ive been with my guy for nearly 7 years now, and i read on here a few days back (a response to someone elses problem) that if were still dating, dump him, as he doesnt want comitment.Me and my guy are still dating, we would get married but i think we feel the r.ship is not stable as we have had many ups and downs (we always pull through). He has mentioned a few times that if we were more secure we could move on.I have trust issues with him, although hes never cheated, its just little things. I sent him a flirty email to see if he flirted back (from a random name), i was with him when he eventually read it, and he replied while i was there,which i thought damn! so when i went home i replied with an even flirtier msg, and for some reason, even tho yet again he didnt flirt back, he kept it from me and lied about replying???? what does this mean? when i told him it was me messin about he said he hid it from me because he didnt want me to get upset or jelous!Anyway, i just need some advise on how to make things stable and secure, im very confused. Ps when people lie like he did it makes me fell small and stupid and upset.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Stop baiting him. He promised loyalty not blindness. What's wrong with flirting? In the end, you got him. 7 years isn't worth throwing away. It sounds like your jealousy is causing a lot of the trouble. I suggest counseling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): just leave him . he may not cheat now but if you stay with him it seems like he could end up cheating in the long run. sorry im not 100% sure on this one but good luck
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