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female
age
26-29,
*abigurl
writes:i met this guy at a mates party three weeks ago we hit it off straight away and on the night of the party we had a really good time. he was my first kiss and it was ok. but since the party it has been dull and boring i still get buterflies when ever i talk to him on the phone or on msn but i never kno what to say to him i get so shy and it makes him angry but i just cant help it when im around him i just dont know what to day even when i talk to him on the phone or msn i just sit in silents, somedays he talks to me and other days hes quiet and i have to keep askin him stuff. its been three weeks since he asked he asked me out but i have only seen him 3 times in the three weeks week we talk more than we see each other but i really wanna see him the last time i saw him was a week ago and i was so shy and i didnt know what to say i really antde to kiss him and i tried but i just couldnt he knew i wanted to him but i didnt and he didnt becuse im too shy. he wants to have sex with me but i said im not reday too yet and said if i wanted him to wait na di said yes then he said ok 9is that a giid sign) anyways please help me i thikn i might really like like him and i dont want to ruining things what type of things should i talk about with him hes 17 any ideas
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reader, breezer +, writes (2 August 2007):
Well I would still say that you are too young for him, a three years age difference at your age is important, if you where in your twenties it wouldnt be important, but at your age it is. Anyway firstly, don't have sex with him, leave sex for a few years when you find the correct partner, trust me you will know who it is when he comes. Think of what would happen if you where to have sex with this guy. You would still have nothing to talk about with him, he would be bored of you, you would also be bored with him and at the end he will feel as he has scored with you and you will feel as if he has used you. At seventeen if you have sex with a girl you tend to boast to your mates about it, you dont want everyone to know! Stick to boys your own age I am sure that you will have more to talk about, and wait for sex until the moment is right, there is no rush whatsoever, wait until you are 18 and wiser. I am a male and lost my virginity at 20, and I am happy it was to someone who was very special to me.
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reader, babigurl +, writes (1 August 2007):
babigurl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry there has been a mixup im 14 and yeah he does mean the world to me so if you could reconcider what you said or still think the same let me know thabk you breezer
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reader, breezer +, writes (31 July 2007):
Honey, You should not be talking to this loser, he is SEVENTEEN and you are only 10-12! He is up to no good, you are far too young to be even talking about sex to a 17 year old. He probably means the world to you but believe me, lose all contact with this guy. Look for friends your own age and you will see that you do have things to talk to them. Try talking to your parents, family or an older friend about this guy. Take care and be very careful with this guy.
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