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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 13 October 2007: He only "looks". So his appearance is youthful compared to actual.... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 12 October 2007: If you keep looking at these old people, you might consider having your eyes checked. ... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 7 October 2007: My girl is about your age. I asked her what she thought about having a crush on her teachers. She said eeeeeeewwwwwwwww. lol
You crack me up. ... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 5 October 2007: I think without having everyone else around yet, he just wasn't at the point of becoming grumbling. He has a right to grumble, being a Drivers Ed teacher. Have you seen how people drive? Heck by the time he gets to school, he's probably picked out ... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 5 October 2007: You know, someday as you mature more, your going to look at your teacher and say "he is old" and wonder why you looked at him in the first place. lol
You said once you would find a guy around your age. Take your eyes off the teacher, look arou... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 4 October 2007: I guess that's what has to happen then. Sorry to hear that, but I think you'll make a wonderful single parent. I'm one, and I absolutely love it. My children are happy, because I provide them with an environment that allows them to be themselves, ... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 4 October 2007: Thank you very much for saving us from the other thing. lol Is there any time you don't stare at the teacher. Can't even keep your mind on the pledge. ... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 3 October 2007: You take care. ... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 2 October 2007: It's important to separate "paying attention". I don't think he has an affectionate interest for your friend either. ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 30 September 2007: I wish you guys luck with the court hearing. I know it will all work out for you. ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 30 September 2007: Remember to print and document any communication the two of you have. It you run into her in public and she cusses you out, write it down, date time, go up to stranger and have them sign as a witness to those actions taking place.
I thing those shor... (read in full...)
I'm worried she wont want me back, because she has many male friends! Advice?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have split up we have been together 2 years and 8 months i have been very jealous in the past because she met this guy on the internet who has told her he loves her, she insists she doesnt feel the same and is just a friend i am ...
A. 29 September 2007: My views are 3's a crowd. She doesn't have respect for you, if she can't respect your feelings. Telling you, if you can't handle it we're over.
We all have a past, we have people who we were close to in our past. When dating someone, those wh... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 28 September 2007: Take care, i wish you the best for your future.... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 28 September 2007: Only 3. Find a boy your age to go out with, you never know he may become a teacher when you guys are adults.... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 28 September 2007: Do you have any crushes on students? Why teachers?... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 28 September 2007: Yea, I hope you work through this. And just to think bringing an apple use to be enough. lol Enjoy your childhood, even if it was legal, which it's not, you don't want to get involved with adult issues. I don't even want to get involved with adult ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 28 September 2007: Awesome. If I was there I'd go have a drink with ya. I bet I haven't been out for a drink in almost 1 1/2 years. What's happening to me. lol Have a fun night tonight. ... (read in full...)
My abusive, alcoholic husband is making me out to be the bad guy! I'm at a loss, any help?
Q. I just don't understand him anymore. I've have posted several questions pertaining to my relationship with my husband who is an alcoholic and has become verbally and physically abusive over the past 2 years. I have received some great advice and I ...
A. 28 September 2007: Thank you. Your a good lady. I'm proud of you. We do look at our own situations differently. We know what the answer is, but it doesn't hurt to have what we all ready know validated by someone outside. That's why motivational speakers fill the ... (read in full...)
Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?
Q. Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?...
A. 28 September 2007: Some can, some can't. It depends also on if their paying attention, I don't think at the heat of the moment guys are wondering that.
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I don't like how my boyfriend talks dirty! Should I dump him?
Q. my boyfriend talks dirity all the time hes says to ome oh my penis is hurtting do you want to see it i dont know if i should dump him or not cause i like him but i dont want him to say dirty things....
A. 28 September 2007: You're too young for what he's saying. I think I'm too young for what he's saying. You need to talk to him and tell him you don't like him talking like that.... (read in full...)
The man I'm seeing has a fiance and he's confused about his feelings. I don't want to wait, but don't want to lose him!
Q. I have been somewhat involved with a man who is engaged... We work together. I am 21 and he is 34. We started off as good friends.... im not going to get into it as everyone woman seems to have the same old boring story. Anyway, it has always be...
A. 28 September 2007: Lose him. Reason being, you love him dearly but he's with someone else. What if you were in his girlfriends shoes, how would you feel. It seems as if he sure doesn't mind being with 2 at the same time. Let's say he ends it, and you get him, how long ... (read in full...)
My bf and I are on break since last week. I've met a new, older man who is a family friend - should I spend the night with him?
Q. Im 18, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (21) for nearly 18 months, i love him very much and i rely on him, as i am not close to anyone in my family, i havent got a job at the moment, as i finished my A-Levels in June and now am ...
A. 28 September 2007: I would have to say no. When a guy says just come spend the night, what he's saying is let's do it, then go back to our normal lives tomorrow. I don't think he's asking for any kind of relationship, and I think with this break, it would be wrong of ... (read in full...)
My abusive, alcoholic husband is making me out to be the bad guy! I'm at a loss, any help?
Q. I just don't understand him anymore. I've have posted several questions pertaining to my relationship with my husband who is an alcoholic and has become verbally and physically abusive over the past 2 years. I have received some great advice and I ...
A. 28 September 2007: I commend you. You're amazing, the strength you possessed and stood your ground. You are not the bad guy. Something I want you to really look at is "truth" or "fiction". You're the bad guy? FICTION, You're a caring mother looking out for your kids ... (read in full...)
Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?
Q. Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...
A. 28 September 2007: he's violating your relationship. it's the old phrase, you can look but you can't touch, or it's OK to browse the menu as long as you don't order.
Just because these girls are "professionals" (i wonder what training they put them through)... (read in full...)
Curious about orgasms...advice?
Q. when a woman comes so hard like 5 or 6 times and is just very sore all ove is that normal ? also is it possible for a man to come 2 times one right after the other ?? ...
A. 28 September 2007: Oh, being a freak, the only way you could be a freak is if you were having sex and had an orgasm and yelled at your man "How dare you give me one of those"... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 28 September 2007: Yea, you would think. The problem is, we knew them one way. Laughing, playing, having fun, caring and loving. It's almost like that person dies and a new them is born, then we're not being treated the same way.
What I want you to do, before t... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 28 September 2007: That's true, it's hard to realize something like this can happen, but being around the wrong crowd and doing the wrong things can distort their version of right and wrong. She more than likely has minor or major depression, and a shot self esteem. ... (read in full...)
We've broken up and gotten back together so many times, I don't know if he will really stop his sideline tricks!
Q. Hi I apologize for this question being so long in advance.I met my bf last year septemeber,he got my number and called me,at this time he had a gf which i knew about. She lived in another town, so he only saw her on Sarutday nights.We rarely...
A. 28 September 2007: If you do this remember you deserve to be treated with respect, and not be hurt. Lay down the law. Let him know this is it, slip up and say goodbye. There is always a chance for people to turn around and act different, I don't guarantee it, but ... (read in full...)
Is "living together for the kids" possible... ?
Q. i have been going through a really difficult time with my husband and have tried everything to sort it out and have come to the conclusion that there is no point on trying anymore.the dilema is neither of us can afford to move out does anyone think ...
A. 28 September 2007: If he's doing drugs, he should not be around the kids, let alone living with them. If it was me, he's be removed from the home, place to go or not. Under your circumstances, it's not OK to live together just for the kids. They are learning and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't hold down a job... he gets angry and sullen and blames everyone but himself!
Q. Please help. I really need some advice. My boyfriend can't hold down a job. He'll stay a couple of months at a job at the most. Basically he splits as soon as he has a conflict at work, he gets all upset and angry and instead of talking about it or ...
A. 28 September 2007: You have it very hard. Have you considered counseling? Not knowing you but with your obligations, I don't know if you can take this one on yourself. There are many different techniques. I do one with my kids. When they place blame or lie, I stop ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps harassing me, even though I'm married now. He was also aggresive to my husband. What to do?
Q. My ex keeps harassing me. We broke up 2 years ago, and I am married and have 2 kids now. He treated me like absolute dirt, he hit me, mentally abused me, he wouldn't work, he lied all the time. I gave him 5 years of chances and then I had it ...
A. 28 September 2007: One more thing, with him trying to run you over with the car when you were pregnant, Ask the DA if it's applicable to charge "attempted vehicular homicide" or "attempted 1st degree murder" I know I'm thinking the longest length of time to keep you ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps harassing me, even though I'm married now. He was also aggresive to my husband. What to do?
Q. My ex keeps harassing me. We broke up 2 years ago, and I am married and have 2 kids now. He treated me like absolute dirt, he hit me, mentally abused me, he wouldn't work, he lied all the time. I gave him 5 years of chances and then I had it ...
A. 28 September 2007: First of all, if he still has pictures of what the ex did, I believe there is a 2 year limitation on filing for the damaged property.
Second, this is your family now, It's your obligation to protect those little ones. His behavior is not heal... (read in full...)
I'm a geek and I like him! Do I have a chance?
Q. hi i like this boy but im a total geek and im ugly and that i feel like theres not a chance with this boy because he barely notices me and he always hangs out with the popular girls and they are much prettier than me.he has spoken to me but i feel ...
A. 28 September 2007: First of all you are not a geek, you are a person. You are not ugly, because you are you.
I don't know how to tell him without being laughed at. Kids are mean. It does get easier when people begin learning, and treating everyone better instead of b... (read in full...)
How can someone be so obsessed one minute then not care the next?
Q. I met a guy about 2 months ago, we instantly clicked and fancied each other but he had just come out of a long relationship so needed to be single. We met up but it although we agreed to be friends there was clearly a lot of sexual tension! He ...
A. 28 September 2007: First impression, may not be right so don't quote me on it, but I'd ask him how his ex is doing, and if he likes being back with her, and why he didn't tell you when he made that decision. That's my first thought.
Second thought. He's falling ... (read in full...)
I'm worried she wont want me back, because she has many male friends! Advice?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have split up we have been together 2 years and 8 months i have been very jealous in the past because she met this guy on the internet who has told her he loves her, she insists she doesnt feel the same and is just a friend i am ...
A. 28 September 2007: do you think begging shows strength or weakness in a man? what do women want?
Jealousy is your own fear of competition and loss. But it sometimes causes us to loose. It's time to stop begging and simply apologize for your actions. Let her know she... (read in full...)
Is my bf gay?
Q. So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months and I am thinking he is gay. (My gay-dar is perked, my friends think he is gay, and the sex thing...he loses his erection, can't come, and seems to prefer doing it from behind- just certain ...
A. 28 September 2007: you know, I don't know how to handle this. the questions you must be thinking. one idea came to mind. get a naughty movie and watch it with him as a couple. most people joke about how funny the actors are in what they do, watch his reaction, does he ... (read in full...)
Curious about orgasms...advice?
Q. when a woman comes so hard like 5 or 6 times and is just very sore all ove is that normal ? also is it possible for a man to come 2 times one right after the other ?? ...
A. 28 September 2007: Yes and Yes. ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 28 September 2007: First, you can't do much with your son, just be a father and take care of him. Unfortunately decisions some make affect others, there's not much we can do about their decisions. She's going to have to make the choice to change. You can't force it on ... (read in full...)
I expected to be comforted after my grandmother's passing, but instead my gf broke up with me! I want her back - what's my next move?
Q. Hi, I have just recently split up with my girlfriend. We have had an amazing year and a bit with each other but she has just suddenly told me she wants to split up. I have taken this very hard. Recently my Grandma has passed away and returnin...
A. 28 September 2007: Your next move is to give her space. They say that for a reason, and it's not to bother them even more. Don't keep sending text messages, and saying I miss you and all the mushy things. I found from experience, you seem rather desperate when you do ... (read in full...)
It's been a year, I still love him, but now he's with my so-called friend. What can I do?
Q. Ok so i went out with this one boy for about year and we deeply fell for each other i loved him alot and he "said" he loved me in which i belived so after a while of getting to know each other very well he decided the relationship was getting old so ...
A. 28 September 2007: Pull back from him and your 'friend'. I'm sorry I have a problem with friends being with someone their friend was. That's just wrong. It's hard enough getting over someone without seeing someone else in the place you use to be.
'remember i love... (read in full...)
I am afraid my boyfriend will fall out of love with me while I am away
Q. Hi Aunts, I am off to Europe for a few months soon and when I am away the plan is that my boyfreind is gonna find us a place to live and we will move in together. I am just worried that he will change his mind cause his not with me, and I know ...
A. 28 September 2007: I think so. It's normal to worry. We all have certain fears. I worry about my children all the time. It's normal for me to as a parent. It's normal for you to worry because you have something good going on. There's going to be a slight shift in ... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on my softball coach. What should I do?
Q. I have a HUGE crush on my softball coach. He is 12 years older than me. Last time I saw him (which was at the end of the season) he was single. My friends say that he flirts with me, but I can never tell whether he (or anyone else for that mat...
A. 28 September 2007: Let me ask you a question. What is it so many teens are liking older men? What do you consider being with him, when you know by dating someone that age is a crime. He can go to jail for it, and it doesn't matter how you feel when it gets to that ... (read in full...)
I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!
Q. i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not...
A. 28 September 2007: Look at the reality behind being with a child. Change your views. Look at it as something that can't happen, because it may cause harm to her, and if you do love her you don't want her to get hurt. And if someone doesn't approve of this sort of ... (read in full...)
My parents are blaming my bisexuallity on my boyfriend
Q. hey.... ive recently just told my parents i am bisexual, and that i have a boy friend. and i think it is best to say all was n ot taken very well!! im 16 and live in the uk, my b/f is 15 buh turns 16 in february, i no the age of consent over her...
A. 28 September 2007: So what they are saying is your boyfriend makes your decisions for you? It can't happen. You have a mind of your own to think, say, and do what you choose to. You do, and you're the only one who has the power to do so. That's like saying he's able ... (read in full...)
How can I make my mom accept the age difference between me and my girlfriend?
Q. I'm 16 and I'm dating a 25 year old girl and we love each other very much. My mom thinks she is 18 but on my g/f's myspace it says 25. My mom said that if she is 25 she will have my g/f sent to jail. I don't want to break up with her. What can I do ...
A. 28 September 2007: If you love her, and respect her you will break it off until you're older. I know you want to be with her, but is it worth your mom sending her to jail? It's not fair to the girl either, and is selfish if you take that chance.... (read in full...)
I know he wants to be with me but he can't risk losing his daughter.
Q. I have fallen in love with a guy and we really like each other, we were seeing each other and things were great but because he has got a little girl and his ex girlfriend is causing trouble for him so he has stopped seeing me, it has broken my ...
A. 28 September 2007: You can't, it's a difficult situation. The questions would be, has he gone to court to visit his daughter or is it out of the courts.
His relationship is over with her. Now it's not about he and his ex, it's about the child and her benefit. I beli... (read in full...)
I'm divorcing my husband and dating his brother. How can avoid the guilt?
Q. My husband and I are going thru a divorce and I have started dating his brother there is alot of guilt involved and I want to know if there is any way to help us all not feel guilty?...
A. 28 September 2007: This is bad judgment on your part. I could see this on Jerry Springer. Talk about keeping it in the family, are there any uncles, cousins in line next? I could see this starting family problems all the way around. ... (read in full...)
I've been married for 17 yrs. Am I in love with a young girl at the church?
Q. I am 40 and my wife 39 and we have been married for 17 years, about a year ago a 21 year old girl came to my church and i can,t get her out of my head. am i in love with her? it is driving me crazy....
A. 28 September 2007: When did people start associating "driving me crazy" with LOVE. People go to strip clubs and watch cute, young girls, drives them nuts, doesn't meant it's time for divorce and picking up on a young thing.
It's lust, infatuation, puppy love, woul... (read in full...)
I like my drivers ed teacher!
Q. So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...
A. 28 September 2007: I think you're emotions for him are playing tricks on you. that happens at your age. did he look at me? is he smiling at me? etc.
even if he did look at you longer, i'm not saying you're not attractive, but it would be inappropriate for him to show... (read in full...)
I say I love you and he doesn't say it back anymore
Q. I love my husband very much but yesterday I got angry with him (it was not unprovoked) and I said something truly horrible to him. I really went below the belt. We have been having problems for a long time and they are not helped by circumstances ...
A. 28 September 2007: Saying things we don't mean. That can sure cause big problems. I think your relationship is in a rut, but I also think both of you need to learn better and more effective ways to handle confrontation. There are many alternative methods that can be ... (read in full...)
Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?
Q. I'm a 46-year-old Mother of 8 (3 by my first husband, 5 by my current partner) and I've had many affairs. Most of which my partner has known about. But now I've started a relationship with a man who myself and my Fiance both work with. All of the ...
A. 28 September 2007: Let me ask you this. If I gave you a gun, does that mean it's OK to shoot someone. You have no respect for your boyfriend and none for yourself. You have children, do you have any respect for your children? How would you feel if your children ... (read in full...)
My feelings have changed since he cheated
Q. I'm a little confused I've been with my boyfriend for two years eventhough, he cheated twice with the same girl and I forgave him but ever since I've forgave him I feel that my feelings towards him are a little different. I've become more aggresive ...
A. 28 September 2007: That would be your choice. All though your feelings have changed a little, how do you feel about him? Now let's take away the incident of him cheating. How do you feel about everything else? How do you feel the behaviors the children display? How do ... (read in full...)
Her ex who cheated on her twice is back on stage and just proposed her! My gf is now very confused, what should I do?
Q. I've been dating a women for a month and things were going great until her ex started pursuing her. A bit of background on me. After marryting at a very young age, I was divorced 2 yrs ago. No children. I have dated many women since then and ...
A. 27 September 2007: She got dumped right after having a medical issue, he cheated on her while she was in the hospital, and one other time, it doesn't take much to see that his behavior is self serving.
She needs to dump the ex. I don't see any positive thing happ... (read in full...)
I asked him to leave home, but how do I go on without knowing where he is, while our children are confused and hurt?
Q. I am writing this to you to ask for advise regarding my relationship with my husband, my husband and i have had a rough go of it and more recently i had asked him to leave our home. he left our home about a month ago, five weeks ago, he has ...
A. 27 September 2007: I'm sorry your going through this. Sometimes people just go elsewhere for a period of time. Its a way to clear their heads, readjust themselves, and it's not proper but it does happen where they do this with the wish of not being bothered.
I rea... (read in full...)
I want to make sure my teacher doesn't get into trouble before I make steps towards a relationship?
Q. Will my teacher get into trouble if we have a relationship? I'm 18 and my teacher is right out of university he's 23. I'v always dated older men but this is different. He is a teacher at my school. I really like but i don't know how he feels I c...
A. 27 September 2007: That is a touchy subject, since you're both considered adult age. I would have to say yes, just knowing schools and what they expect from their teachers. I go to school too, their rule is "no staff member is allowed to date any student" it doesn't ... (read in full...)
My fiance visits sites like this and says she wants to leave me for her lover! I'm disabled, but do what I can - what else can I do to be a better partner?
Q. through it being a shared comupter and my fiancee not deleting her history as she usually does. ive found shes visited a lot of sites like this one and talked about leaving me for her lover. i dont want to lose her. im disabled- i can walk slightly ...
A. 27 September 2007: I agree with the other answer. Do you remember Christopher Reeves? Played superman in the movies. He became a quad, in a wheel chair began regaining some feeling right before he passed from the infections he got after surgery? I really believe his ... (read in full...)
Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?
Q. Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...
A. 27 September 2007: It depends on the type of massage parlor. I went to a town, say a sign that said massage, mentioned my shoulder hurt so maybe I should make an appointment. Others that were there laughed and said it was no ordinary massage parlor. I didn't know, I ... (read in full...)
We've broken up and gotten back together so many times, I don't know if he will really stop his sideline tricks!
Q. Hi I apologize for this question being so long in advance.I met my bf last year septemeber,he got my number and called me,at this time he had a gf which i knew about. She lived in another town, so he only saw her on Sarutday nights.We rarely...
A. 27 September 2007: you teach people how to treat you. you set boundaries as to how that treatment will be. with this guy they have been real loose boundaries. there were just talking. that's almost as bad as our president saying on national tv that getting a blow job ... (read in full...)
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