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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 27 May 2008: It's nice to hear how everything is going for you. I really appreciate the update. It's nice to hear when people get out of bad situations and improve their situations. Take care, and best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
We like to have sex anywhere that could be fun, bus shelters etc; my bf is 17 and I'm 15, could this be wrong?
Q. is what im doing ok?? i like to be very passionate in the bedroom. i prefer to use handcuffs or belocked to a bed while a guy takes full advantage of me. i like to have sex in the back of a car, morrisons carpark, in bus shelters. on park benched or ...
A. 6 October 2007: It sounded like you'd just drop them and go at it anywhere. lol The car is OK for doing it. Watch out though, I've done it in a car too. We use to have such a romantic place to play, you could see our whole city at night. We've also had the tap on ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.
Q. my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...
A. 4 October 2007: You are very welcome. Just keep in mind. It is your body, no one can dictate what you do with it. Reading some of these questions, you can tell with quite a few people, one decision can have a huge negative impact on your life, and once the decision ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.
Q. my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...
A. 4 October 2007: You are very welcome. Just keep in mind. It is your body, no one can dictate what you do with it. Reading some of these questions, you can tell with quite a few people, one decision can have a huge negative impact on your life, and once the decision ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 4 October 2007: I guess that's what has to happen then. Sorry to hear that, but I think you'll make a wonderful single parent. I'm one, and I absolutely love it. My children are happy, because I provide them with an environment that allows them to be themselves, ... (read in full...)
I'm constantly tired. What's wrong with me?
Q. Hello, i have a health problem. I am always tired, constantly tired and i fel like i have no energy at all. I am 18 now and it has been this way since i was about 9. I have had two blood tests since then for being tired, checking for anemia and diab...
A. 2 October 2007: A psychologist works with sleep problems too, not just mental issues. First depression can show up at any time, no warning and can take form as excessive tiredness. I developed mine when I was about 9 and was diagnosed at 12.
With me my slee... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher! Any advice?
Q. i really fancy my teacher. sometimes i think he like my and sometimes i dont. its hard, when he cmes over 2 help me in class and stares into my eyes...i just...go mad inside!!! i catch him staring at me sometimes but i know hes nt a perv, hes 29 and ...
A. 1 October 2007: It's common to have a crush on a teacher. You should look for someone your age. If not, I'm afraid you might hold on to something that's not going to happen, and miss out on what could.
Do you know what happens to teachers who have rela... (read in full...)
Why won't guys date bigger women?
Q. Iam 20 years old and I have never been in very many relationships. I have ahd one serious boyfriend and a few casual relationships. I know it is because Iam overweight. Everyone tells me Im beautiful, smart,a nd have a shining personality. i know I ...
A. 1 October 2007: Some guys don't date bigger women, some guys do. For myself, I've always dated girls depending on who they are, and not their size. My ex's have been larger women. I also have ex-girlfriends who were smaller.
I'd much rather be with someone who ... (read in full...)
Is something wrongwith me preffering blow-jobs of sex?
Q. Hello all. hope you can help with my question. i am 21 and my girlfriend is 20. i have been with my girlfriend fo a year now and at the beggining we had a very good sex life. but during the last 4 months i dont want sex i would rather have a bl...
A. 1 October 2007: Getting a blow job is not needing it's wanting. Quite a few guys enjoy that over sex, because you really don't have to do anything but enjoy.
If you're requesting these, and she's giving in, it's not fair to her. She needs pleasure and stimulat... (read in full...)
I'm constantly tired. What's wrong with me?
Q. Hello, i have a health problem. I am always tired, constantly tired and i fel like i have no energy at all. I am 18 now and it has been this way since i was about 9. I have had two blood tests since then for being tired, checking for anemia and diab...
A. 1 October 2007: Many different things can cause you to feel tired. Depression is one. I would see a psychologist and get assessed in that area. I would also check to see if there is a possibility of Narcolepsy, which is the severe desire to sleep. It doesn't always ... (read in full...)
Opinions on my situation where my partner cheated on me
Q. i've posted in the cheating forum a lot but i feel this doesn't fulfill the requirements anymore. so here goes. i've gotten over the situation, but in brief, my boyfriend and i had been dating 8 months long distance (i was at school). talked ...
A. 1 October 2007: You both need to take time to figure out who you are and what you really want. The two of you could film you're life together and sell it as a new soap.
You forgave him for the time he cheated, but I don't think you have fully resolved the pain... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 1 October 2007: That is such a wonderful update. Please do keep us updated. This strength you have displayed, you should always be proud of yourself for taking that first step. It's people like you who become the "if she can do it, maybe I can take a step to" ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him last year and he wants out; he's been unfaithful several times before. Should I move on?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 years. I cheated on him last year for the first time. I told him about it and he wants out. I feel cheated because he has had affiars several times and i have always forgiven him. I'm very confused now. ...
A. 1 October 2007: I know you may feel cheated. Cheating wasn't right for him to do, you forgave him, it wasn't right for you to do either. Just because you forgave him, does that obligate him to do the same?
I was with my daughters mother for almost 8 years. I... (read in full...)
This guy swears he was my first, but I remember my kids' dad being my first! I feel as if I'm going insane!
Q. Iam in touch with a guy i used to date when i was 15 yrs old. Recently, he told me he was my first. I have no memory of this he tells me he started to enter and I stopped him as I was bleeding. But the thing is, I remember my first true experience ...
A. 1 October 2007: I don't think this guy was your first. Women tend to have an emotional attachment when they first have sex. All though down the road they may regret who they gave it too, they still remember who it was. I wouldn't worry about it and if brought ... (read in full...)
We broke up! He said he got another girl pregnant but I think he's lying..advice?
Q. ok you kno what happend? okay im really angry! He broke up with me..I WANT 2 get over him!!!! ASAP!! he told me that he got another girl pregnate! but i thnk he is lying to make me feel bad..i kno that there is other guys in the world who will love ...
A. 1 October 2007: This may sound weird coming from a guy. I agree with the other comment. My species (male) is not worth attaching your life too. This guy is an ass. Don't get back with him. You need to spend some time and build yourself back up. I could tell you d... (read in full...)
He likes motorcycles and the biker girls who hang out with bikers. I am afraid I might lose him! Help?
Q. I have been with the guy I love since the first night I ever hung out with him. We started dating that night and 4 months later, we got engaged. Now, we are 6 months into the relationship. It happened fast, i know, but oh well. He bought one of them ...
A. 1 October 2007: Your engaged. Shouldn't be. There's too many issues that need worked on before a life commitment can take place. Enjoying bikes and riding is not bad. My pastor owns a "yamaha" he does get picked on by his friends with harley's. he is married, yet ... (read in full...)
Is my interest Gay?
Q. Recently I have met a guy who was friends with my cousin and his girlfriend. Anyway, we all hung out one night and me and this guy totally hit it off. This was a few weeks ago and i have not hung out with him since. We did have a real good time and ...
A. 1 October 2007: Just because he is such a gentleman, you think he's gay?????? Isn't that what girls wish for is a guy like him. If so, you're saying girls need to start turning gay guys strait. There are guys out there that love women, but come across on the fe... (read in full...)
Arguements around my sister and her boyfriend are causing a rift in our family. Please help!
Q. Im really sorry it is a long message but I need help. Im 12 and I know this site is for teens but still. My sister is 16 and she has a boyfriend. He is perfectly nice but on Myspace he has been posting affectionate comments to this other g...
A. 1 October 2007: I really don't know much that you can do about it. Maybe have your sister and her boyfriend set their profiles to private. It sounds almost like you mum began with security in mind, then became somewhat obsessed with her spying. Her behavior sounds ... (read in full...)
I don't want to see moverly keen with my new interest. Any advice?
Q. Hi I recently met a guy who is 27. I am 19. He asked for my number. However, his first texts were him being angry because I had gone off with his mate that night and he was telling me how I should have been more respectful towards him because his ...
A. 1 October 2007: I would have to say take it very slow. His beginning behavior "jealousy prior to dating" his problem would have been with his friend, instead of bringing up his concerns with you. He had no right to be angry with you, liking you or not. You did ... (read in full...)
What does a barrister do?
Q. hi there, i`m about to leave school this year and i am in the "top 10" of year 11's comming out with the most g.c.s.e's and i want to become a barrister i realized this when a teacher mentioned it to me can u tell me plz what a barriester actually ...
A. 30 September 2007: There are two main law attorney's in your country. A barrister and a solicitor. If you choose a barrister, you'd be representing clients in courts where you live, that have county or state jurisdiction. You may also be an advocate for your clients ... (read in full...)
I want her back, but it could destroy me. Do I gamble???
Q. Do I gamble and try and get something back with my ex? For those of you who haven't bee keeping up. My girlfriend of 2 years split with me back in June, because she was going to University. We had endured a long distance relationship sin...
A. 30 September 2007: Friendships are hard to find. At least good ones. Just realize "Now wasn't the right time" I doesn't mean that down the road things won't change. If you just give up and end the friendship, how long are you gong to wonder what the outcome would have ... (read in full...)
He presumes I'm cheating but has allowed himself to be hugged in public by his ex.
Q. my boyfriend pressumes im cheating, there is no truth whatsoever in these allegations,yet he allowed himself to receive a hug in public from his ex girlfriend and feels it was ok ...
A. 30 September 2007: It's not OK for him to accuse you without proof. We do so, and really don't have the right to. Here's how I look at relationships.
I will give you myself and trust. I won't accuse you of being unfaithful because I have no right too. I won't co... (read in full...)
In my relationship, I miss my family and friends who live a long way away. It's affecting our relationship.
Q. HI I have a wierd guestion ... Don't know where to start. Me and my BF have a great relationship .. I know that he loves me and I love him. He is year younger ... has his whole family here in NY, his friends, job .. his whole entire life ......
A. 30 September 2007: you're not the only one who has to work. ask around, I bet you'll hear many stories of hard work that ended up easing things up down the road.
You're stuck in a position where your family makes you happy and your boyfriend makes you happy. N... (read in full...)
Please tell me what you would do if in my situation. I really need your advice!!
Q. Can someone tell me what the hell they would do in my situation? I'm 23 years old and live with my parents. I am completely independent and fully pay my way - EXCEPT that if I happen to get home from work and my parents have made some dinner...
A. 30 September 2007: First about you. You are a wonderful person, to be in this situation and still feel confident about yourself, that's wonderful. I could tell by reading this, you have a strong character and an incredible integrity. What gets hard is when you have ... (read in full...)
I've been backstabbed at work. What can I do now?
Q. This isn't about boyfriends but relationships at work, so i am not sure if it counts. My friends have never had this happen to them though so i dont know who to ask for advice. This is basically my problem... I am finding it hard in my new job. ...
A. 30 September 2007: If you could explain further. What exactly did the employees do or say which you consider backstabbing. There are many different situations in the workplace, and each one is handled differently. ... (read in full...)
It seems like everyone has a partner except me... What's wrong with me??
Q. What is wrong with me? Or is it this stupid town? It seems like everyone has a partner. Even our cat has a boyfriend next door (granted she's a cat). All my friends are with someone, not just sex buddies, but like someone special. And don't get me...
A. 30 September 2007: I sense a lot of fear in you. Are you afraid that if you do get a boyfriend what's going to happen or how it turns out. If so you may have had good opportunities but not knowing it turned them down. We do that with fear we back up from opportunity ... (read in full...)
We like to have sex anywhere that could be fun, bus shelters etc; my bf is 17 and I'm 15, could this be wrong?
Q. is what im doing ok?? i like to be very passionate in the bedroom. i prefer to use handcuffs or belocked to a bed while a guy takes full advantage of me. i like to have sex in the back of a car, morrisons carpark, in bus shelters. on park benched or ...
A. 30 September 2007: It is wrong because you are not at age of consent. You say he can get into trouble, but you love him. If you did you'd protect him from getting into trouble. Being adventurous is OK. If he gets into trouble, then what will your thinking be? You need ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.
Q. my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...
A. 30 September 2007: you are too young to consider having this.
yes it could split you up, and it's probably not like having gay sex, it's usually one girl with all the guys. It's not so much the cheating either. One thing that I'd worry about is what happens ... (read in full...)
I get compliments all the time but not from lads I'm interested in. Why don't I have a bf?
Q. why am i the only person that is still single!!! all my friends are in relationships of 9/10/11/12/13 monnths n even longer and i am still the one that's never had a bf. all people say is "oh dont worry mr right will come along one day." but hes ...
A. 30 September 2007: How do you really feel about yourself. You said someone to love me. A good relationship begins with the relationship you have with yourself.
I know you feel down, but you know some of the best people who you can have a relationship with you migh... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 30 September 2007: I wish you guys luck with the court hearing. I know it will all work out for you. ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 30 September 2007: Remember to print and document any communication the two of you have. It you run into her in public and she cusses you out, write it down, date time, go up to stranger and have them sign as a witness to those actions taking place.
I thing those shor... (read in full...)
Am I pressuring him by talking about our future?
Q. my boyfreind is to young to get married but does that automaticly mean he doesnt? we always talk about it. but im the one who brings it up. am i pressuring him by talking about our future? he agrees its going to be great but is he just saying that ...
A. 30 September 2007: Yes and No. I don't think he's saying it to just make you happy. If you're ready and he's not quite ready, he's not going to bring it up until he is. I would recommend, instead of brining it up, since he's not ready, just focus on the relationship ... (read in full...)
We've been going out for 3 years and just moved in together - and he never wants to have sex. What should I do?
Q. me and my b/f have been going out for 3 yrs just moved in together but he never wants to have sex i'm 21 and hes 35 what should i do...
A. 30 September 2007: Prior to moving in, how was your sex life? Are there any additional stresses since moving in together? Does employment add stresses that didn't exist when it was good?
Fist ask yourself about changes that you might recognize in how day to day comm... (read in full...)
He keeps asking about threesomes. I've had them and they're not a good idea at all! Should I be worried?
Q. Okay i have been with my boyfriend for four years. And yes our relationship is somewhat good. But a few days ago all my bf did was ask about a threesome. I have had them in the past and they are not the greatest idea at all. he kept on begging me ...
A. 30 September 2007: What's going on is this. Some guys look at threesomes as being a special interaction. As long as porn stresses 2 girls attacking and taking advantage of 1 guy. I think men would be a bit curious of what that is like.
It's not something I'd worr... (read in full...)
It was a week after her period, could she still get pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex last night. Is it possible that she could get pregnant even though it was almost a week after her period?...
A. 30 September 2007: Yes she can, from what I remember from health classes, which was a long time ago, 1 week before and 1 week after are a bit more risky than other times of the month all though it can happen any time.... (read in full...)
How can I help and show her that no matter how much work needs to be done I'm still with her and that I don't mind that shes having to do that?
Q. My wife is a teacher and she loves it. Just oen problem this time of the year is always the most stressful for her. I think shes been over working herself and getting herself upset for no reason, shes not at the stage where she starts crying but i ...
A. 30 September 2007: Teaching can be a very difficult job. I can see where she'd be stressed. She sounds like an amazing lady. She's under this stress but still thinks of how it might be affecting you. That is wonderful.
I'd try just being there for her, I agree with... (read in full...)
I think I am depressed
Q. I think I am depressed.. I get upset over the littlest things, always crying about anything n everything... when I get upset I either eat loads(and I have gained loads weight) or eat nothing (terrible stretch marks from putting weight on n off)...
A. 30 September 2007: I still recommend seeing a doctor. The reason it's important, depression is not a disorder where you take two aspirin and call me in the morning. It's an actual off balance within your neurotransmitters.
Here is a site I found for you. It's a s... (read in full...)
I don't have any friends to go out with or to take my mind off my Internet lover, after the break up, so what do I do?
Q. i just broke up with my boyfriend who i met online but never actually met in person. we were together for one year and he ended it saying its not going anywhere and im wasting his time. he is completely ignoring me now. i love him. believe me ...
A. 30 September 2007: You have an introverted personality. Not going out much or making many friends. That's an OK personality to have, I enjoy being that way. The less friends to me is less of a chance of someone backstabbing.
Do things you enjoy doing, take walk... (read in full...)
13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.
Q. I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 ...
A. 30 September 2007: Let me ask this. From the time of saying "I DO" how has 13 years been with your wife? If you would have found out about the drunk night, would you have gotten to this point with her, or would those first few weeks been all the history you would have ... (read in full...)
13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.
Q. I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 ...
A. 30 September 2007: Let me ask this. From the time of saying "I DO" how has 13 years been with your wife? If you would have found out about the drunk night, would you have gotten to this point with her, or would those first few weeks been all the history you would have ... (read in full...)
These medical conditions that make me want a completely new appearance. Is it possible?
Q. i need a new face. seriously its not just your average 15 year old "im bored of looking like me" thing. i have medical conditions and was born with a few things that have messed my face up such as a cleft lip. theres this girl that i wanna loo...
A. 30 September 2007: Take care and good luck.... (read in full...)
These medical conditions that make me want a completely new appearance. Is it possible?
Q. i need a new face. seriously its not just your average 15 year old "im bored of looking like me" thing. i have medical conditions and was born with a few things that have messed my face up such as a cleft lip. theres this girl that i wanna loo...
A. 29 September 2007: It can be done. Look at the stars, they keep the plastic surgeons in business.
I want you to know this though. All though you can change your appearance, it doesn't change who you are. Your beauty will be found on the inside, not what you look... (read in full...)
My son has been diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorder. How do I solve his problem of not wanting to use the toilet except for urine?
Q. hi readers. i found out last year that my son has been diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorder. its not very well known of and some people dont even know it exists. My problem is, he has just started primary school and he is confident enough to ...
A. 29 September 2007: You have every right to feel angry. It's your child. With a disability, we shouldn't have to justify their behavior to anyone. I did chuckle reading your story so when my daughter comes in from play, I'll have her slap my hand. We were at a store ... (read in full...)
Will it hurt my boys not to have a male influence in their lives?
Q. Curiosity question here. I am currently separated from my husband and seriously considering divorce. Of course at this time in my life I feel like I don't ever want another man in for life for as long as I live. Every experience I've EVER had ...
A. 29 September 2007: I know how you feel. I have made the same commitment with myself and my kids. All though I'm working very hard at it, and it does get harder (about to pass one year), I still can't say "never" for sure.
Having a male role model is important, but ... (read in full...)
These medical conditions that make me want a completely new appearance. Is it possible?
Q. i need a new face. seriously its not just your average 15 year old "im bored of looking like me" thing. i have medical conditions and was born with a few things that have messed my face up such as a cleft lip. theres this girl that i wanna loo...
A. 29 September 2007: Is this medical condition something that if you do change you're look, it continues to work against you?
It's something that is possible, but not guaranteed. I'd research it to find out what it will take to do this for you. Also if you decide t... (read in full...)
Is it fair that he will be leaving me on my own for a month every year?
Q. I moved out to new york to live in new york where he is from and where his business is out of. But now he is going back to colorado every january for a month to rent his houses (his other business). Im basically out of luck because i don't have my ...
A. 29 September 2007: It isn't for everyone. I have quite a few friends who travel, many times to separate locations to handle business transactions. He did offer for you to join him. Let me ask this. What is his business? What is required of him to maintain, or manage ... (read in full...)
Do I move back in with my ex, or will it just make things worse?
Q. I am in financial dire straits. Going throu a divorce. Ex Boyfriend has offered my kids and I a place to stay. I don't want to exchange one problem for another. I am currenlty temping. Not making enough to see to my basics. Debts are piling ...
A. 29 September 2007: Has your ex-boyfriend said anything about getting back together, or just offering a place to stay. He may care for you and want to help without having sexual intentions.
I allowed my exwife to stay with me for 1 month, while she started a new jo... (read in full...)
I think I am depressed
Q. I think I am depressed.. I get upset over the littlest things, always crying about anything n everything... when I get upset I either eat loads(and I have gained loads weight) or eat nothing (terrible stretch marks from putting weight on n off)...
A. 29 September 2007: Do you have ability to see a psychologist there? Before answering your question, I took a few moments to look up and cross match your symptoms against a mental health book. Your symptoms are a match to "Major Depressive Disorder". It really isn't ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 28 September 2007: Awesome. If I was there I'd go have a drink with ya. I bet I haven't been out for a drink in almost 1 1/2 years. What's happening to me. lol Have a fun night tonight. ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 28 September 2007: Yea, you would think. The problem is, we knew them one way. Laughing, playing, having fun, caring and loving. It's almost like that person dies and a new them is born, then we're not being treated the same way.
What I want you to do, before t... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 28 September 2007: That's true, it's hard to realize something like this can happen, but being around the wrong crowd and doing the wrong things can distort their version of right and wrong. She more than likely has minor or major depression, and a shot self esteem. ... (read in full...)
My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?
Q. below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...
A. 28 September 2007: First, you can't do much with your son, just be a father and take care of him. Unfortunately decisions some make affect others, there's not much we can do about their decisions. She's going to have to make the choice to change. You can't force it on ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him last year and he wants out; he's been unfaithful several times before. Should I move on?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 years. I cheated on him last year for the first time. I told him about it and he wants out. I feel cheated because he has had affiars several times and i have always forgiven him. I'm very confused now. ...
A. 26 September 2007: You'll never forget. You will need to prepare yourself for refiling his deceptive ways. What I hate to see in relationships is where someone was hurt by someone else previous, then they bring that pain to the next relationship, carrying with them ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 22 September 2007: I'll be waiting anxiously to hear how everything goes for you. I do wish you the best as well. It's great to hear you took action. Please update as soon as you're safe with you dad. I know I'm not the only one who worries about people in difficult ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 21 September 2007: Let me tell you something. First I am a man, I didn't make a mistake by my gender on my profile. I was in an abusive situation, where I was the one being attacked. My ex was a girl who had a disorder the the movie "fatal attraction" and "hand that ... (read in full...)
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