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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Can men tell if you have had sex before or not? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, DrPsych +, writes (29 September 2007):
Sometimes women bleed a little bit after their first sexual intercourse because the hymen (skin in the vagina) is broken by the act. However, lots of women break their hymen before they are sexually active by doing sports etc. I think if you are going to be having sex with someone (whether you are a virgin or not) then you should be able to communicate with them about how you feel and about past sexual experiences (or lack of). It may help a lot if they know you are a virgin and most men would see it as a great compliment.
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male
reader, kenny +, writes (28 September 2007):
I don't think generally a guy won't be able to tell if a girl has had sex or not, also i don't think they would be overlly bothered either.
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male
reader, Jamer70 +, writes (28 September 2007):
i doubt it unless they are an OBGYN
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): no, and why does this matter.....if you have or haven't please elaborate... so that I can answer you better. Are you scared because he will know u r a virgin, or you lied and told him you are one, and thinks he will discover this once you have sexxxx.
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male
reader, rcn +, writes (28 September 2007):
Some can, some can't. It depends also on if their paying attention, I don't think at the heat of the moment guys are wondering that.
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