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writes:I have fallen in love with a guy and we really like each other, we were seeing each other and things were great but because he has got a little girl and his ex girlfriend is causing trouble for him so he has stopped seeing me, it has broken my heart. I know he wants to be with me but he can't risk losing his daughter, he hasn't text me in days but we have kind of spoken. What can I do to make him want me again?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 You can't, it's a difficult situation. The questions would be, has he gone to court to visit his daughter or is it out of the courts.
His relationship is over with her. Now it's not about he and his ex, it's about the child and her benefit. I believe the U.K. has laws as well that protects both parents from interference by the other parent in living their life, moving on and making decisions that affect their life, as long as it does not negatively affect the wellbeing of his child. I would check with the courts, it's called custodial interference.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (11 September 2007):
 This guy is obviously playing games with you. His daughter is no reason to end a realtionship. He may be involved with the Ex-girlfriend and that is why he had to end it. He has rights as a father and she can not legally keep him away from his daughter. This guy is full of it. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Any guy who wouldn't fight for you is NOT worth your time. There is no way that legally she can prevent him from seeing his daughter and if he really loved you that is no excuse for him to leave you. He just doesn't love you enough. Just be strong. If you want him to want you again, just move on and be happy. But don't look at it that way. Stop expecting more than what he has to offer, which right now is NOTHING. And why would you even want him back after he left you for what I think is such a lame excuse/reason, no offense.
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