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Like many others on here, I've had my share of relationship issues. I've been in an abusive relationship, where I was the abused. I've had times where I'd drink and party a bit much, times of depression and really feeling lost as to what I should be doing to improve my life and the lives of my children.

I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).

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Know who you're with

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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...

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I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   13 October 2007: He only "looks". So his appearance is youthful compared to actual.... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   12 October 2007: If you keep looking at these old people, you might consider having your eyes checked. ... (read in full...)

Am I being selfish to want to do some things to make myself happy instead of her?

Q.   I spent years in a bad relationship, caring for my kids by my first wife. I am now divorced twice, kids are grown, and I am in a relationship I think is not good. She says she loves me and the when she is with her friends she never calls never lets ...

A.   10 October 2007: Being alone is not a bad thing. I'm quite happy being alone, but I have also built myself up to a point where happiness is within me, and not through any external means. I hear people say, "oh he or she makes me so happy." Great when you buy a new ... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   7 October 2007: My girl is about your age. I asked her what she thought about having a crush on her teachers. She said eeeeeeewwwwwwwww. lol You crack me up. ... (read in full...)

Should I break with my sexual friend.

Q.   I need help fast! I'm seeing this guy, were friends with benefits! The sex is great, And he's a great guy great personality I have no complaints, but I want out!!, for some reason I don't want to see him anymore, I'm getting these mixed feelings, ...

A.   6 October 2007: Your welcome. Take care.... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   5 October 2007: I think without having everyone else around yet, he just wasn't at the point of becoming grumbling. He has a right to grumble, being a Drivers Ed teacher. Have you seen how people drive? Heck by the time he gets to school, he's probably picked out ... (read in full...)

I am engaged but recently hooked up with another guy - my former teacher!!

Q.   Okay, first of all I know I've been stupid but I really need advice! I'm 20 and left school about 3 years ago and during my last two years I developed a huge crush on one of the teachers. I am now engaged to a different guy but about two weeks ag...

A.   5 October 2007: The first thing you need to do is be honest with your boyfriend. He is innocent in your tangled web of deceit. It's not fair to him, and it's not fair to walk down the isle to get married with this secret. Great you have a fantasy, we have all had ... (read in full...)

My friend wont leave my boyfriend alone!

Q.   please help me i have this friend that likes my boyfriend and he said he doesn't like her he thinks she's to full of herself [which is true lol] and he says i am the only gurl for him......i always see her looking at him talking about him or ...

A.   5 October 2007: Dump your friend. She's calling your cheap and trying to impose on your boyfriend, a real friend would not do this to you and your boyfriend. ... (read in full...)

I just found out my ex had clymidia

Q.   I had a one night stand with my ex a year an a half ago, I've recently found out that he had chlamydia, what should i do?????...

A.   5 October 2007: Go to the doctor and get tested. I would have to say a year and a half is a bit long to not realize you've got this from him. If you do have it, oral medication is taken to clear it up. ... (read in full...)

How do I not ruin first dates?

Q.   I am quite a shy person so at 20 i have just started dating. i had a date on tuesday with a girl who i seemed to like but i have probably cocked it up as there was at times long periods of silence (like 1 minute at one point). She had to go early as ...

A.   5 October 2007: A date is an introduction. During the introduction you give limited information about yourself. Too many try to supply their whole life story during the first date. When on your first date, limited talk about self, a lot of talking about her. Ask ... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   5 October 2007: You know, someday as you mature more, your going to look at your teacher and say "he is old" and wonder why you looked at him in the first place. lol You said once you would find a guy around your age. Take your eyes off the teacher, look arou... (read in full...)

I don't even remember what attracted me to my partner in the first place. Is it over?

Q.   Is there even a glimmer of hope? I have completely lost interest in my partner. This didnt happen overnight it after a horrible past 2 yrs where every possible nightmare happened. He went overseas for work, i got pregnant, we had financial constrai...

A.   4 October 2007: Do you know that relationships don't run on autopilot, they do take work. It's like driving a car, keep your foot on the break, you're not going very far. Boy it sounds like you had a rough two years. I could see with that much stress how your brai... (read in full...)

I am not jealous, but I am upset that he is talking to a new girl

Q.   this guy i use to talk to for like 2 years suddlenly forgot about me and just moved on with his life without me doing anything to him at all. he is talking to this new girl now and it hurts when i see them together. im not jealous but i am upset and ...

A.   4 October 2007: You say you "talked" to him for two years. Did you ever have an actual relationship with him, other than just talking?... (read in full...)

Am I to blame for messing up our relationship?

Q.   i have a boyfriend. he is older than me for about 7 years. at first our relationship is so good. but the dilemna came when the time that my x-bf texted me and he's the one who receives it. he asked me who is he and because i get nervous, i lied to ...

A.   4 October 2007: I think neither one of you is to blame. It just didn't work out. Now why did he have to ask who it was with the text message. What happened is a series of events. His questioning the text, then your lie didn't help out. Lying is deceit. When lying ... (read in full...)

I want to make my ex jealous

Q.   hi i just wanted to get on here and see what this was all about. i love my exboyfriend, but im dating somebody else. just to make him jealous cause its his cuzin and all. what do i do? is that mean? ...

A.   4 October 2007: It's vindictive and malicious. You're not just trying to make your ex jealous, but you're using someone who's an innocent party as the means to do it. What if the cousin develops feelings for you, and your intention is still only jealousy, are you ... (read in full...)

What do men mean when they say a girl was really great in bed?

Q.   what do men mean when they say "she was great in bed" ? how do i know if i am great ? or not ?...

A.   4 October 2007: I wouldn't worry about weather or not you're good in bed. On your end, worry about if the guy is good. If you feel good about your part in bed, chances are he feels really good about it. It's different for everyone what they determine to be good.... (read in full...)

My ex seems to be trying to make me miserable

Q.   I've recently just broken up with my ex-boyfriend. We both agreed to move on. I've been dating a guy i really like. My ex started to kick up a fuss, and has been constantly arguing with me. Now i find out he's dating one of my friends! I don't ...

A.   4 October 2007: Your boyfriend I think is jealous. You were in a relationship with him, all though you broke up and he agreed to move on, there's two sets of emotions, not just one. You were the one who was ready to make a change, it doesn't necessarily mean that ... (read in full...)

Help! My boyfriend has a crush on my best friend!

Q.   I recently found notes on facebook between my boyfriend of eight months and my best friend about how he had developed a crush on her and thinks shes the prettiest girl he knows. He says it was just a week that he had a crush on her and doesn't mean ...

A.   4 October 2007: Did you ask him if it was only a week that he had a crush on her, who's it going to be next week? It must have been one heck of a crush if he took the time to notify her and tell her he does. I see (not sexually) many pretty women. I don't take... (read in full...)

His ex sent a text to my bf mentioning weed and sex! I feel he also compares me to her! How should I react? I'm aggrevated!

Q.   I am actually new to the whole relationship and dating game and dont know much on how to act and what exactly to do...i have a boyfriend now since april and took it to a very big level by moving in with him at his parents house...we do everything ...

A.   4 October 2007: His behavior is abnormal. Not good at all. So he's meeting his ex on Friday, what ever happened to "we'll all meet together?" I have children, which makes a slight difference. When having to make personal contact with my ex's (they live out of ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wont let me go in has car

Q.   My boyfriend wont let me go in has car, he always makes up excuses why I can't and have to go in mine which I find odd as this has only started to happen recently it was never a problem before. I was due to go to college it was dark and i noticed my ...

A.   4 October 2007: Ask why? "Because this is my car." "ok well this one is mine and this time I'm not taking it." Stand your ground and don't give in to this. I realize it's only a car, but it's not right for him to expect you to always take your and never take his... (read in full...)

He is a compulsive lier and cheater.

Q.   We just started dating about 3 months ago but feel like EVER cause we live together basically in the barracks, and I have already caught him in mulitiple lies and oh i cant forget i even caught him across the hall in another girls room in the ...

A.   4 October 2007: I'd say send him packing. I don't know why you put up with this. When you do it's almost like saying "i approve of this behavior." So he wants to make things work, did he mention if that was with or without bringing his flings along for the ride. He ... (read in full...)

Am I being selfish to want to do some things to make myself happy instead of her?

Q.   I spent years in a bad relationship, caring for my kids by my first wife. I am now divorced twice, kids are grown, and I am in a relationship I think is not good. She says she loves me and the when she is with her friends she never calls never lets ...

A.   4 October 2007: You went from one bad relationship to another bad relationship. It seems as if she is very self centered, and is not being a good partner in this relationship. I will tell you what the problem is and how this happened. I listened to Dr. Phil and ... (read in full...)

His ex wont leave him alone

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend just under a year. His ex is like a thorn in my side - she won't go away! Every time she crops up, it causes conflict in our relationship. We'll forget about her, then the next thing youknow she's textigm or c...

A.   4 October 2007: If her number isn't stored on his phone, he keeps one text to keep in contact so if he wants to contact her, he just has to reply to the text. Now I'd like to say, It is OK for him to keep in contact with an ex, if it was OK with you. He's not in a ... (read in full...)

Any suggestions for really dirty sex?

Q.   i have just came out of a long term relationship and my sex life had got pretty boring !! i have met a very sexy fella and we both agree we just want sex. i would love to get really dirty with him, any suggestions what i can do to him ?...

A.   4 October 2007: buy a book on it. it depends on what works for you. someone on here can make a suggestion, if it's dirtier than you were thinking it may gross you out. lol my ex and I many years a go bought a book on sexual positions. every time we'd have sex... (read in full...)

I have pain in my hip and stomache. Any idea what it could be?

Q.   hey for the past 3 days ive had really bad pains by my right hip and stomach and they wont go does anyone have any ideas what it could be ...

A.   4 October 2007: Make an appointment to go to the doctor. It's the best thing to find out what is actually going on. Last month I thought I was having a heart attack. My chest hurt. I had pain going down the left side of my body. My daughter grounded me from my ... (read in full...)

My boyfriends online webcam/ chatting is ruining our relationship

Q.   I'm having a case here, 26 he 33 I am pregnant , almost ready to have the baby and my boyfriend has pretty much been doing this since day 1, I found his "stash" just recently , and this has been the worst time of my life , along with just moving to ...

A.   4 October 2007: He has absolutely no defense. His actions alone, if it was me, he and his web cam would be gone. How can he justify his defense. A guy offers for some dirty talk, you turn him down, and your man has all these pictures and graphic images of himself, ... (read in full...)

I'm a verbal bully and need help!

Q.   I have a vile and viscious temper (trait passed on from my father) I can generally hold back when dealing with normal situations, but due to the fact my boyfriend is so laid back and quiet and submissive, I (4 years ago) began to easily get mad and ...

A.   4 October 2007: I guess since there's not many resources there, I am going to work with you in supplying you the tools, and methods that are proven in changing developed human behaviors. What you do with the exercises will be up to you. I want you to realize ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

Q.   my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

A.   4 October 2007: You are very welcome. Just keep in mind. It is your body, no one can dictate what you do with it. Reading some of these questions, you can tell with quite a few people, one decision can have a huge negative impact on your life, and once the decision ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

Q.   my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

A.   4 October 2007: You are very welcome. Just keep in mind. It is your body, no one can dictate what you do with it. Reading some of these questions, you can tell with quite a few people, one decision can have a huge negative impact on your life, and once the decision ... (read in full...)

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

Q.   below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

A.   4 October 2007: I guess that's what has to happen then. Sorry to hear that, but I think you'll make a wonderful single parent. I'm one, and I absolutely love it. My children are happy, because I provide them with an environment that allows them to be themselves, ... (read in full...)

Was I really to blame for all this?

Q.   What I want to know here is if I am in the wrong. What happened was that I went to a night out with my friend who is my ex. There was a guy who liked her, his friend (who has a girlfriend) and our old friend. These three guys were all friends. ...

A.   4 October 2007: I read this 4 different times. I can't help to sense weakness. Not just within what you wrote but also within those who were involved in this. Now you and your ex may have been friends, but I'll tell you, it's not appropriate behavior to make out ... (read in full...)

Should I break with my sexual friend.

Q.   I need help fast! I'm seeing this guy, were friends with benefits! The sex is great, And he's a great guy great personality I have no complaints, but I want out!!, for some reason I don't want to see him anymore, I'm getting these mixed feelings, ...

A.   4 October 2007: Your confused. You said it perfectly. You know you're worth more and feel guilty. You're seeing it as a compromise of your values. When we believe something and act against our belief, we do feel guilty. You can wrap up just about all your feel... (read in full...)

Am I gay if I watch gay porn and have fantacies of men (but don't want to be gay)?

Q.   i watch gay porn and fantasize about having sex with men but dont want to in real life, i dont want to be near a man but does it mean im gay...

A.   4 October 2007: nope, not unless you're doing things with men.... (read in full...)

Next step in getting part-time accounting position?

Q.   I want to know whats the real next step in ensuring a part -time position in areas of accounting I have experince over customer services retail business bookkeeping in retail business I have completed almost 10 years ago advance dilpoma of bus...

A.   4 October 2007: get out there and advertise yourself. You need to bring yourself to the attention of who your focusing on getting a position with.... (read in full...)

Should I join the military despite my egg allergy?

Q.   Hey, all, thanks for reading. I've been feeling really frustrated. Right now I am just starting college, but it's not what I want. I have wanted to join the military since I was 15 years old. However, I am allergic to eggs, and this is medically ...

A.   4 October 2007: You can do that, but it would be misleading if there is any documentation regarding your limitations. If so, they'll have that information when you take your physical examination. Have you thought about an alternative that can satisfy at least part... (read in full...)

Should I join the military despite my egg allergy?

Q.   Hey, all, thanks for reading. I've been feeling really frustrated. Right now I am just starting college, but it's not what I want. I have wanted to join the military since I was 15 years old. However, I am allergic to eggs, and this is medically ...

A.   4 October 2007: You can do that, but it would be misleading if there is any documentation regarding your limitations. If so, they'll have that information when you take your physical examination. Have you thought about an alternative that can satisfy at least part... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   4 October 2007: Thank you very much for saving us from the other thing. lol Is there any time you don't stare at the teacher. Can't even keep your mind on the pledge. ... (read in full...)

He said he was 'bored with our relationship" and it hurt! What should I do?

Q.   What does it means when your bf text message you with: "I am bored of us".." every day is the same..."hi..good morning.. good night.." . I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend..and we talk on the phone; but lately he's been very ...

A.   4 October 2007: If he keeps hurting you, than why take it. You don't deserve for him to treat you that way. You deserve better. Say goodbye to him and find someone who is going to treat you special. The way he's being is not that of someone who is in a loving ... (read in full...)

Having a gay relationship with my cousin but don't want to break our families' hearts, I'm not even sure I'm a lesbian!

Q.   Hi, Last week I finished with my boyfriend because i dont love him anymore. I have been going out clubbing with my girl cousin and she is a lesbian. I've recently started fancying her and i told her how i felt on a friday then she told me she has ...

A.   4 October 2007: Just wait to see if it's going to last or not. I can see where your family may get a bit upset at this behavior. This is your cousin. How would your family view a relationship, not just with the same sex, but from within the family (incest)? ... (read in full...)

Ended a 5 year relationship and returned to college... but feel so down with my new life and wonder if I'll ever meet a guy!

Q.   Ive recenty came out of a 5 and a half year relationship which should have really ended 2 years aga. Ive returned to college as amature student and have moved away from my family and friends. Im feeling so down and i think im never going to meet a ...

A.   3 October 2007: Is it not the same, because you're missing the other friends. Why don't you feel you'll meet a nice guy. Of course with that attitude. Transitions are hard. Moving away from people you know and love is hard too. Being in college will take some adju... (read in full...)

What does "giving head" mean?

Q.   What does "giving head" mean?...

A.   3 October 2007: I think it means "if you have to ask, you're just too young to know."... (read in full...)

Is it wise to stay with someone just out of love who I know thinks and acts complete opposite to me? Can it work despite of our differences?

Q.   My boyfriend and i after a year and a half are considering whether or not we should stay together. We love each other but are very different in all aspects. Im caring, considerate, don't drink much and don't really like adventurous things - he is ...

A.   3 October 2007: It could work. I don't know if it will in your case, but I don't want to discourage you from others who have different personalities. We date people because of their differences, not because they are like us. I really don't want to date myself, I ... (read in full...)

I got called and Elephant and took it to heart. What is the average weight for a 5'3 girl anyway?

Q.   Hi! I have had this problem for 3 weeks now and it's making me feel so down, drained, and depressed! To put it in a short version....well....I got called fat (an elephant) and I took it to heart and I starved myself for about 3-4 days....but...

A.   3 October 2007: No it's not as easy as it sounds. I want you to try eating small amounts to build yourself back up. Each time remind yourself it is unhealthy not to eat. I will become sick if I don't eat. If I am happy with myself, no other comments matter. ... (read in full...)

To all the men: what keeps you interested and committed to us?

Q.   To All The Men: How does a woman keep your interest over the long haul of a loving relationship? What do you look for in a mate, what will keep you from straying to a younger woman who gives you some attention? What will make you want to be ...

A.   3 October 2007: You know there's a reason you can't run to the book store and buy a manual on a fail safe way to have a relationship. These questions are good ones, but the answers would depend on the individuals in the relationship. First the biggest thing is to k... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I had a foursome?

Q.   Shall I get back with him? I started going out my ex in Jan this year, we fell in love with each other and were really happy and even lived with each other at one point, we went away on holiday and he proposed and I said yes!! Soon after we ret...

A.   3 October 2007: The truth is always the best route to go. If you chose to get back with him, give him all the evidence to make a proper decision himself if he wants to do it again or not. Speaking about honesty. I saw in your writing, over and over again you're p... (read in full...)

Do I continue to flirt with my brother's best friend or leave it?

Q.   I'm crazy about my brothers friend who he lives with. My worry is, do I continue to flirt with him and generally try my best to get together with him, or leave it because he's my brothers best friend? My brother is very protective of me and I wo...

A.   3 October 2007: You have a good brother protecting you. I would leave it. It's OK to be attracted to him, but trying too hard to get him can come back and bite you in the end. Over flirting with many turns people away instead of bringing them closer together. B... (read in full...)

I've not got (full) nipples (yet)...

Q.   Okay so im just wondering about nipples. Out of my friends who ive seen they have nipples i dnt really still, i understand that one is usually differnt from another well it is, one has a nipple tother doest really, it makes me embarassed to show my ...

A.   3 October 2007: Your find, give it time. Not all end up the same. It's not like a nose or a pear of ears. Many sizes shapes, and different times of growth. If you're really worried about it ask your dad "do my nipples look OK." You'd get a kick out of how fast... (read in full...)

I've not got (full) nipples (yet)...

Q.   Okay so im just wondering about nipples. Out of my friends who ive seen they have nipples i dnt really still, i understand that one is usually differnt from another well it is, one has a nipple tother doest really, it makes me embarassed to show my ...

A.   3 October 2007: Your find, give it time. Not all end up the same. It's not like a nose or a pear of ears. Many sizes shapes, and different times of growth.... (read in full...)

I'm a verbal bully and need help!

Q.   I have a vile and viscious temper (trait passed on from my father) I can generally hold back when dealing with normal situations, but due to the fact my boyfriend is so laid back and quiet and submissive, I (4 years ago) began to easily get mad and ...

A.   3 October 2007: Deeply saddened by who you have become??? I would say that is an understatement. You do understand what this is called? "Domestic violence", "Mental abuse" now since you have a child "intentional infliction of mental harm". The problem here is the ... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   3 October 2007: You take care. ... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   2 October 2007: It's important to separate "paying attention". I don't think he has an affectionate interest for your friend either. ... (read in full...)

I got called and Elephant and took it to heart. What is the average weight for a 5'3 girl anyway?

Q.   Hi! I have had this problem for 3 weeks now and it's making me feel so down, drained, and depressed! To put it in a short version....well....I got called fat (an elephant) and I took it to heart and I starved myself for about 3-4 days....but...

A.   2 October 2007: Why are you letting someone affect you this way. What does it matter what they think. What matters is what you do. Stop starving yourself, do you know what happens to kids who begin some of these behaviors? You need to immediately tell someone ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

Q.   my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

A.   30 September 2007: you are too young to consider having this. yes it could split you up, and it's probably not like having gay sex, it's usually one girl with all the guys. It's not so much the cheating either. One thing that I'd worry about is what happens ... (read in full...)

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

Q.   below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

A.   30 September 2007: I wish you guys luck with the court hearing. I know it will all work out for you. ... (read in full...)

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

Q.   below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

A.   30 September 2007: Remember to print and document any communication the two of you have. It you run into her in public and she cusses you out, write it down, date time, go up to stranger and have them sign as a witness to those actions taking place. I thing those shor... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   28 September 2007: Take care, i wish you the best for your future.... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   28 September 2007: Only 3. Find a boy your age to go out with, you never know he may become a teacher when you guys are adults.... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   28 September 2007: Do you have any crushes on students? Why teachers?... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   28 September 2007: Yea, I hope you work through this. And just to think bringing an apple use to be enough. lol Enjoy your childhood, even if it was legal, which it's not, you don't want to get involved with adult issues. I don't even want to get involved with adult ... (read in full...)

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

Q.   below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

A.   28 September 2007: Awesome. If I was there I'd go have a drink with ya. I bet I haven't been out for a drink in almost 1 1/2 years. What's happening to me. lol Have a fun night tonight. ... (read in full...)

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

Q.   below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

A.   28 September 2007: Yea, you would think. The problem is, we knew them one way. Laughing, playing, having fun, caring and loving. It's almost like that person dies and a new them is born, then we're not being treated the same way. What I want you to do, before t... (read in full...)

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

Q.   below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

A.   28 September 2007: That's true, it's hard to realize something like this can happen, but being around the wrong crowd and doing the wrong things can distort their version of right and wrong. She more than likely has minor or major depression, and a shot self esteem. ... (read in full...)

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

Q.   below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

A.   28 September 2007: First, you can't do much with your son, just be a father and take care of him. Unfortunately decisions some make affect others, there's not much we can do about their decisions. She's going to have to make the choice to change. You can't force it on ... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   28 September 2007: I think you're emotions for him are playing tricks on you. that happens at your age. did he look at me? is he smiling at me? etc. even if he did look at you longer, i'm not saying you're not attractive, but it would be inappropriate for him to show... (read in full...)

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