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writes: why am i the only person that is still single!!!all my friends are in relationships of 9/10/11/12/13 monnths n even longer and i am still the one that's never had a bf. all people say is "oh dont worry mr right will come along one day." but hes not here yet and its already took him 15 years and 5 months!!! why am i the only one without a boyfriend. someone to love me??? i feel so down about it and it really bothers me. am i too ugly for a boyfriend. i get compliments all he time but not from lads im interesnted in. my girl friends call me pretty but i want a boyfriend!!!!!!! does anyone know how i can get one????? Reply to this Question
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reader, tyesha  +, writes (1 October 2007):
well i know how u feel girl. i am real pretty and i never really had a real bf the longest was two weeks!! it's not cause of you it's your season.like my best friend she's not so pretty and she as a hot boyfriend for one year. guys really are scared to approach a beautiful girl because there scared of rejection and the girl might be cocky and ask for too much and there scared they might cheat on them.it;s all inferior complex. trust me if you pray to GOD for the right one...love your self and be a little cocky cause men love a challenge
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reader, towapa  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 I know how it feels to want a boyfriend at your age, but once you actually get one, you'd think to yourself 'Dear God, why did I actually want one in the first place?!' They can be such a hasssle at times, I swear to God on that. Wanting your attention, getting jealous over everything, telling you what they think is not right... You don't need that at your age! Yes, your mates might be in bliss, but are they really? Have fun first, with your mates, family... And i'm sure you're a very pretty girl if you're getting compliments from your mates and lads. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): I am in exactly the same position. Relax first. Don't panic cos that is silly. Calm down. You aren't ugly if everyone says your pretty or they wouldn't say anythhing. Go out there and find the person for you. Just get in a relationship, make yourself feel better and work your way up. Or listen to your mates and wait. It works but it is boring.
Life Happens, go with the ride.
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (30 September 2007):
hey i am going exactly what you are going through. But you know what the people who dont bother noticing us are blind idiots. even though it's coming from a girl you probz are gorgeus. And anyways having a boyfriend is not about how you look it's how you carry yourself and how you perceive yourself. You aint going to find love if you aint in love with yourself first. Sounds bigheaded but it really isnt. And sometimes your body languague can through you off. Start thinking to yourself. ' i am too good for these boys and they would be lucky to have someone like me' and you will feel more confident and the boys will start rolling in.
Best of Luck
xx
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reader, rcn +, writes (30 September 2007):
 How do you really feel about yourself. You said someone to love me. A good relationship begins with the relationship you have with yourself.
I know you feel down, but you know some of the best people who you can have a relationship with you might meet when you're not expecting it and not looking for it.
People want to be with people who are positive. If you feel down, are you displaying that feeling when you go out. If you do he may like you, but doesn't want to be with the negative attitude.
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reader, Amy2007x +, writes (30 September 2007):
 Y do u need a boyfriend so bad? i was single for a very long time b4 i actually had a proper boyfriend... i enjoyed just being out with mates and stuff like that.
Get your mates bf's to see if they have any single lads.
I dont know what to tell u actually erm... are you shy around boys? if so dont be just laugh at all there jokes start to get matey with your friends bfs maybe use could all hang out one day?
maybe you just havent met the right guy for u yet.
but whatever u do DO NOT change yourself for a boy- dont thin kebing some1 else will get you a lad beacuse if you do that then he wont ever know the real you and that woul suck.
sorry for not bein a great help lol
Mail me back if you want and we can talk about this in dept and i iwll be more help that way =]
Amy
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